Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Trigger. Lost baby Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing was wrong, my pregnancy has been going great. I'm so numb right now. I'll he delivering him later this week. I don't want to do this. I don't want to do this. Not before Christmas. How am I'm going to tell my kids?? My dear sweet baby boy. Why did this happen?
Ok, so my friend is wanting to get pregnant but..... Her fiancé does not want kids, at lease for another 3-5 years he said... so she came up with the idea to have me pee on a stick for her and show it to him so that he’ll be comfortable with not wearing a condom and finishing in her.. basically the whole idea is to make him think she’s pregnant already...... so I do this favor for her or should I tell my girl to chill? He and my husband are friends through us and he’s going to invite him over tonight and run it by him...
Question: 16 year old dating an q8 year old? Thoughts?? My opinion is hell no. 16 year old is still a kid. Kids now a days want to be grown so bad and be in adult relationships and situations. I know when my daughters are 16 and they tell me they are dating an 18 year old. I will surely flip my lid.
So me and my fiance we agreed to wait before trying again. Well tonight he just told me that he wants me to be pregnant again!! I understand he wants a family but I'm just not ready. I'm so scared of losing another baby!! 😩😩
Rhiannon V·
Мама двоих (2 года, 3 года)
You have to let him know it's not just his decision. If you let it go too long he's going to think he can get away with making decisions for you. Sit him back down and tell him that just won't work for you. It's not like he's the stay at home parent, here. I hope it gets better for you and you get to have your own. ❤
Naomi Israel ·
Did you remind him that he told you he wanted another child and how much you want one?
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@rhealize I told him how I felt and he told me that I could just leave him and find someone new.
Gina·
Sorry babe. You shouldn't hide your emotions from him. You went into this relationship with certain expectations and he should know if you're upset by this. At this point you need to ask yourself if this is a deal breaker or not. You're still young and can move forward and find someone who shares the same family goals as you.
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@embracemthrhd2 he knows I've had baby fever for a while now and he just told me he wasn't ready until now.
Naomi Israel ·
Well then if you really want a baby then you dont have to stay... but then I also understand since you have been the mother figure for the kids its not that easy to just pick up and leave.... 😔this is really hard i know cause i also am a step mother of 2...
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@embracemthrhd2 @ginz I can't just leave his kids. I love them like they are my own. They mean the world to me.
p·
It takes a very strong woman to fully take care of step kids, i personally wouldn't be able to do, I really hope he realizes this before he pushes you away with his decision, sorry 😐
Naomi Israel ·
I completely understand
Naomi Israel ·
Yeah, so sorry he put you in this predicament... 😟
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@p0790 it's definitely not easy and it's at the point where most days I feel unappreciated cause he isn't willing to help out when it comes to the kids or house. I honestly feel without me the kids would be living in the system
p·
Those kids deff need you, but he also needs to realize and understand how to make you happy, have you tried bringing this to his attention? Like let him know he needs to also raise his kids ?
Gina·
I get that. But like you said, you want to have children of your own. Hopefully you can put your foot down and he comes around. Seems really selfish of him on top of having you take care of his kids.
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If he can just say you can leave him, then you probably should. Yeah it'll be hard to leave the other kids but they are his responsibility. You have to be happy too. He's being selfish.
meme·
@ablaub, damn well with that response fuck him find someone new that comment he gave u hurt my feelings wow what an ungrateful asshole