Thank you ladies. Thankfully I only had to stand up for this twice now. But I really don't even know what to say to someone when they bring up the money part of it . I mean I never even knew about the money til I did the research and I would still be doing it. I can't wait for us to get moving in this process again.

You should of finished the conversation. It's annoying when people assume. They have one set mind to something and some people need to hear something different. Not everyone does things for the reason you thing. I think it's great your doing that and your helping someone get the family they want. That's huge. She probably said that because it's the reason she'd do it but she has no right to assume because she can't commit a selfless act you can't. I have a pole for exercise and my daughter plays on it and some people say that's inappropriate and I'm training to be a stripper. I say it's a great exercise and stress reliever, don't judge me because a time realm your still stuck in.. or do, judge me and talk about it because obviously you need some excitement in your life

Screw her. God bless you. You're doing a great thing. Don't let no knock you. It's so crazy because the most times i get cut down is by a person who works in a hospital to doctors office. People need to mind their own business

I would love to be a surrogate but my SO is against it. I loved being pregnant and I miss it so much but I don't want another baby myself. I wish I could convince him but I know I cant