Kelly Lieu
kellyt23
Kelly Lieu·Мама сына-младенца

How is it, that in 2017, women are still having unplanned pregnancies.....

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kellyt23
Kelly Lieu·Мама сына-младенца

Right.. If you don't want an abortion then you need to make sure everything else is in check

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momtothe3rdpower
Gabi·Мама троих детей

No! Not everyone believes in abortion. I'm pro choice but about half of the country isn't. Just because you believe in abortion doesn't mean everyone has to. If BC fails, if plan B fails, and abortion is not an option, adoption or parenting are.

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kellyt23
Kelly Lieu·Мама сына-младенца

So if someone like that doesn't want kids then they should take every precaution. Condoms + pull out or Cumming elsewhere if needed. If that fails then realize it failed and get plan b. If the plan b fails then the next step is an abortion.

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amandacn
Amanda ·Мама дочки-младенца

Some people might be like my sister, she can't use birth control. She gets a bad reaction. And it messes with her being bipolar. She gets really depressed and thinks bad thoughts

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kellyt23
Kelly Lieu·Мама сына-младенца

Y'all are way off subject

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mandi.marie
Mandi Marie·Мама сына-младенца

No amount of "preparation" is ever enough when it comes to bringing a child into the world, so just because a person isn't "prepared", doesn't mean that they don't want, love, or deserve their child.

I had been using birth control for 14 years straight and still ended up pregnant, since nothing offers 100% gaurantee, besides abstinence. I wasn't about to use Plan B each and every time my SO and I have sex, since it happens multiple times a day, every day. Also, I am Pro-Life and do not condone abortions, so that was never even an option I would consider.

I've always lived by faith in the fact that everything happens for a reason and life only gives to me what I deserve... My son may have been "Unplanned" and "Unexpected", but he has never and will never be Unwanted or Unloved!

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chelseaaverdugo
Chelsea·Мама сына (7 лет)

(This is all my opinion, Before I start lol )

I feel its Because , even when you plan you are never ready lol..

it's like saying it's 2017 and ppl still can't plan having a girl or boy or twins etc .. it's something that is lifes creations , just like we can't plan if it's miscarriages or etopic, if we our baby's have disorders or what ever else we can't plan , decision or not , many plan to have a baby and then decide they can't do it or are unfortunately aren't able to have any , so it's 2017 and in my opinion.... when it comes to another life u can't plan u can only prepare .. some well are less knowledgeable where u question WHYYYY ?!!!! 🙄🤷🏽‍♀️ and some wish they could . Another subject we all will never agree about lol "life" because we all live it differently ....💚

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momtothe3rdpower
Gabi·Мама троих детей

My first and second were unplanned but not unwanted and "unwelcome" in the world. I have the means to provide. Just because I wasn't planning on having a child right at that moment doesn't mean they're anything less than who they were meant to be exactly when they were meant to be.

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soul96
Marisol Gutierrez·Мама дочки-младенца, беременна (11 нед.)

Okay just saying! But the complaining is annoying @kellyt23

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princesslina
Akeelah·Мама дочки-младенца

No actually I stopped 5 months before I got pregnant. So I knew what I was getting into. Lol but yeah girl I feel you that crap does annoy me. People who complain about their kids or say they wish they had their old life... They had a way to make it NOT happen. Smh effing crazy.

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kellyt23
Kelly Lieu·Мама сына-младенца

I know.. I didn't say that @mari_c

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kellyt23
Kelly Lieu·Мама сына-младенца

Were you on bc when you got. Pregnant? @princesslina and I know.. This isn't beef with people who actually try to prevent it. But people who complain about it happening but didn't do anything to stop it in the first place and then the kid suffers

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kellyt23
Kelly Lieu·Мама сына-младенца

You've just proved my point. I didn't say unwanted. I said unplanned.. Which usually means that the person isn't prepared to welcome another child into the world and there for shouldn't even if they want it. Abortion should never be ruled out. It has its place. And plan b works up to 72 hours effectively so if you know you fucked up then there's a chance to correct it for cheap. If you're on bc and also using condoms without it breaking then there no reason for a pregnancy. If you have a reason to worry that means you weren't on bc and or you didn't use a condom. Simple @marliemacieowensmomma

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princesslina
Akeelah·Мама дочки-младенца

My pregnancy wasn't planned but she wasn't unwanted at all. And no birth control is 100% unless you abstain

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soul96
Marisol Gutierrez·Мама дочки-младенца, беременна (11 нед.)

Don't believe in birth control that crap messes up your body!!!! Unplanned are the best because it's a surprise! Both my babies were planned but sometimes even birth control doesn't work sweetie....@kellyt23

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momtothe3rdpower
Gabi·Мама троих детей

Unplanned doesn't mean unwanted. So that rules out abortion. Plan B only works within certain time frames. And as for multiple BC options... yes. But, there's also a lot of poor people. Uninsured people. Or people who rely on their forms of BC that inevitably fail, no matter how slim the chance.

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kellyt23
Kelly Lieu·Мама сына-младенца

@marliemacieowensmomma

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kellyt23
Kelly Lieu·Мама сына-младенца

Right... There are multiple bc options that can be used at once and there's plan b and abortion

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momtothe3rdpower
Gabi·Мама троих детей

Except for abstinence I guess. But that's no fun

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momtothe3rdpower
Gabi·Мама троих детей

There's no birth control that's 100%.

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