I honestly don't know how long I could be in this relationship for 😩 I want my unborn son to have his mom and dad but…

@priscilla1517 .i have the box for it too.says up to 4 months

@sherrynygirl, is it worth having or is it only worth it for a week or two

@priscilla1517 thanks..I'm telling you the snuggle nest co sleeper looks brand new i used it 3x..

@sherrynygirl, the way you were with this baby is how I was with my first. I was on top of everything & had everything ready but now with this one I have 5 weeks left until due date and I don't have anything or anything ready. I LOVE your set up!

@priscilla1517 that's part of my big living room..missing in pic is his bouncer vibrating chair

@priscilla1517 ..yep...this last baby of mine was pre planned 100% i had 9 packs of newborn&size 1. New crib bought &built at 7 month's.i wasn't able to do this for my 1st son barely and with my 2nd to a point.just felt so good to be prepared

@sherrynygirl, I'm going to wait until reality heats him in the butt lol which will happen when baby is born.

@priscilla1517 ..funny well since. He's soo rich..i ve never seen anyone turn down diapers its okay wish u well

@sherrynygirl, yes he doesn't work. I told him that when he told me about not using used clothes.

@priscilla1517 .i thought i read in your post he doesn't work...anyways I'll hold on to it a few more days if u change your mind.i would like to find a young mom to help

@sherrynygirl, Really?! I really really appreciate that and would love to take you up on that but my boyfriend doesn't want to use any used clothes he wants to buy everything in his own. :(

@priscilla1517 ..really i live in west kendall...i was going thru jaydens things.i have a bag of newborn boy clothes..a bag of munchkin 4 oz bottles&a snuggle nest co sleeper new i used 3x &1 pack of newborn diapers if you want..your welcome to it

@sherrynygirl, That's what i try to do everyday. My son is my life and just about everything I do is for him. I'm in Kendall too

I am 38 yrs old now..had my 1st at age 16...so from exp...do what's best for your child always1st let them be your motivation.i live in miami also in kendall and you

I'm sorry, @priscilla1517

@dreamermom, I'm so sorry you had to grow up in a household like that. Thank you for sharing your story with me.

@2mommytobe2, I feel your pain your not alone.

@priscilla1517, I can't imagine that's an easy place to be... but you have to do what's best for your kids... I grew up in a home with lots of screaming which later led to domestic violence... so speaking from the kids perspective, I had a lot of anger and resentment toward my mom, for keeping us in that situation! I eventually got past it... but I always hated that I was forced to always live in fear... of saying or doing the wrong thing... having all the fighting and screaming... it really impacted the relationships I had later in life also... took me til 30 before I realized what healthy relationships were all about... I feel like it would have been so much easier growing up with a single mom, instead of what I did... however, I am who I am because of the life I had... so I guess if I had to do it over again I would not change it... I have strength in places and ways few others do... but I would never make those choices for my children... I know that's probably not helpful, but it's something to think about! Good luck momma! I'm available if you ever need to talk... just keep yourself and your babies safe!

@august2017babe, if we don't work out he won't be able to see his son because he would have to move back to New Jersey and I live in Miami

@dreamermom, I know this is not healthy for any of us. I don't know how to fix it on my own if he doesn't change the way he is or wants to make this work. I tried to tell him what's going on how I feel etc but it just ends up with him screaming at me and me walking out. I don't know what's the right choice I don't want to be a single mom of 2 with 2 different dads 😩

Wow i thought i was the only one trying to get my man to work. He plays games all day too and it pisses me off because i work. But i know how you feel. Hope every thing gets better.

At this point, you need to decide what's best for you and your kids. It sounds like it might be better to not be with him but see if you can coparent at all. Obviously, it's ultimately your decision. Good luck. @priscilla1517

Sounds like it's not going to be the best environment for a baby to grow up in... might be easier to make changes now, than afterward... it's a big decision... but sounds like you've already recognized it's not healthy for you or your unborn little one!