Trigger. Lost baby Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing was wrong, my pregnancy has been going great. I'm so numb right now. I'll he delivering him later this week. I don't want to do this. I don't want to do this. Not before Christmas. How am I'm going to tell my kids?? My dear sweet baby boy. Why did this happen?
Locking your doors We are having a discussion on one of my birth boards from my older kids about locking doors and security alarms. There are many of us (me included) who do not lock our doors at home (I actually don't even have a deadbolt on my house and we don't lock it when we leave either), and others who think that's totally weird. So what do you do? Do you lock your doors? Do you think it's weird that people don't?
I hate to post my personal business but I need to vent. I don't know what we're supposed to do about food and paying our bills this month! I plan on going to the food bank on Monday but they really don't give much and they have a mobile food pantry next week and they give you a bag or so of food. The beginning of the month my fiance lost one of his jobs. Now his horse is hurt so he can't work at all. We do ranching so we have to have a horse to work. We have a few canned goods and a whole chicken and that's all we have to last us. We are a family of 7 so that's not going to be enough. We have $40 in the bank and that is supposed to be able to put gas in both of our vehicles. We are way below income so we should be able to receive Food Stamps but they tell us we have too many resources! Because we have 3 vehicles and one is broke down and we still owe over $3,000 on it so we can't sell it. We have truck payments but we do own our van. The finance companies were supposed to send the office what we owe on the vehicles but they never did so now I'm supposed to reapply if they ever send that information to them. I applied in December and she told me today that I have to reapply. I don't know what we're supposed to do. The church in town recently filled propane for us because we ran out so I don't want to ask them for any more help. I don't know what to do! Our kids are, 2,6,7,10,11 :(
I don't think she gets it. I swear sometimes I just need to renew my policy to not look at the comments in Facebook. I never used to. I don't know why I started. But the ignorance is real.
I can't take it anymore! Haley (yes my 1mth old and no I wasn't able to go through this "joy" of nursing my older daughter, Molly) has been screaming non stop for 6hrs! All she wants to do is eat and I can't have her attached to me all day, everyday! She has wanted to eat every hr on the hr for the past 3hrs! I put her in her room so I don't scream at her but I just can't take it!
Keri·
I would recommend to stock up on canned foods and meat. It will last the longest
Ashley Adamson·
Мама сына (7 лет), беременна (30 нед.)
I've tried the main food bank the rest I can't get to alone
Robyn·
Food bank?
Ashley Adamson·
Мама сына (7 лет), беременна (30 нед.)
Nice. Kinda can't wait til she gets here then hopefully they will raise it
Ashley Adamson·
Мама сына (7 лет), беременна (30 нед.)
Exactly @mcrowell0970
Ashley Adamson·
Мама сына (7 лет), беременна (30 нед.)
@kayla187 I have called them and they've told me there are no more vouchers available
Michaela·
Could call 211 they offer help with food
Liz·
В ожидании первенца
Okay good. Try googling churches in your area that does food banks, see if they have any mobile ones, or call and explain that you are pregnant and need help getting it to you? Maybe someone nice can deliver it?
Ashley Adamson·
Мама сына (7 лет), беременна (30 нед.)
@chamberser I'm on wic
Liz·
В ожидании первенца
Have you tried applying for WIC? It helps alot and its healthy stuff too, and you can get it until baby is 5 years old. Check into it. Wish you were closer , id give u a ride, i need to go to food pantry myself :/
leslee·
Многодетная мама (5 детей)
@cubanese, idk why not I guess it's different in each county and state then
leslee·
Многодетная мама (5 детей)
lol I can eat beans a lot though I'm not a picky eater I make anything out of nothing if I have to
Chela·
Girl i do bean burritos, scramble eggs with beans, beans with chorizo. Bean alone with cheese omg yum. Yes ramen noddles are cheap. @lae1988
leslee·
Многодетная мама (5 детей)
@pinkblossom99, beans ramen noodles and get some peanut butter and crackers and bread those things will fill you up
Darilyn Adamson·
Мама двоих (2 года, 2 года)
I tried to get WIC when my boys were newborns to help with formula because the stuff they were on was expensive, my husband made $3 to much, I was so angry! It really sucks, Kroger has a lot of awesome coupons on their app, or Aldi is good if you don't mind random food brands, sorry that happened
Chela·
Girl beans. I swear i cook everything with beans. I know how it is if i don't work we don't eat period.
leslee·
Многодетная мама (5 детей)
@cubanese, they will up it once baby is born because the formula can also be bought with food stamps when I was receiving food stamps while I was pregnant with my last baby I was told mine would go up after she was born
Ashley Adamson·
Мама сына (7 лет), беременна (30 нед.)
@pinkblossom99 we now only get $126 a month but the month of March we will only get $69 and we have not a DROP OF FOOD RIGHT NOW NO LIE
Chela·
I am trying to think. So you get 149. Is that all your budget for food? Um ahhhh i am trying to think of cheap meals.
Chela·
Bean, rice,
Ashley ·
Мама двоих (младенец), ждёт третьего
Have you looked into food trucks and seeing if someone could give you a ride to the food truck
Ashley Adamson·
Мама сына (7 лет), беременна (30 нед.)
Short essence we have been eating spaghetti since last summer and macaroni and cheese with hamburger in it because that's the cheapest food we can buy. We haven't stopped eating it
Ashley Adamson·
Мама сына (7 лет), беременна (30 нед.)
@lae1988 I know I just did that because I can't handle anything else to stress me more right now. It's just so wrong that a woman growing a baby can't get the food she needs in her house to grow that baby and keep that baby healthy. The government really needs to Fuck off. I just don't know what else to do. If I could get to a church that has a food pantry I would but then I can't carry it on the bus by myself
Ebony Bivens·
Мама дочки-младенца
Try making things like spaghetti ect.....so that way you will have left overs and won't have to cook everyday.
leslee·
Многодетная мама (5 детей)
Now if you have one kid and two adults I don't think that amount sound right idk but the baby doesn't count until the baby is born that's just how they are
leslee·
Многодетная мама (5 детей)
If you don't have any other kids and you are pregnant you will have to deal with what your getting once the baby is born the food stamps will go up also why would anyone bash y'all your husband pays taxes right if so he is pretty much paying for your food stamps the only time someone would get bashed is if neither parent is making An attempt to work and as of now your husband is doing what he needs for you and your baby so don't let anyone bash you ever
Ashley Adamson·
Мама сына (7 лет), беременна (30 нед.)
I just can't keep dealing with everything falling on top of us. I'm sick of never having food. Even when we had $149 we never could get it to go a full month. That was just buying the cheapest food to make like spaghetti and mac n cheese
Deleted·
Churches will help you or maybe if you have a wic office near by I would try them. I'm so sorry your going through this. *hugs
Ashley Adamson·
Мама сына (7 лет), беременна (30 нед.)
Yes I'm on Wic, but that only goes so far and yes I've tried many times to get a food voucher they just keep telling me there are none available right now
mommy boys·
Have you went to churches or programs that offer food boxes?
Dee E·
Мама четверых детей, беременна
Do you have a program called WIC available in your area?