I seriously need to vent and go ahead and call me heartless. I'm just so tired.. My father in law has stage four appendix cancer that has spread to his colon. It's pretty bad. He has alot of special needs and can't really be left alone. Me and my fiance live with them. So while my fiances mom goes to work and so does he, I stay at home with my almost on year old, clean and take care of dad... I'm also 24 weeks pregnant. I'm Fucking tired I'm constantly on my feet. I really wish they would get an inhome nurse to come and take him off his hydration, or take his tpn out of the refrigerator, drain his stomach bag... I love him to death but I can barely take care of myself. And I'm getting a C-section in June so I have no idea what they're going to do. Basically I feel like I'm at my wits end
I would REALLY stress it now. Especially since you have a nb on the way with a csection. You physically can't do a lot of things your doing now while pregnant, nor after which I'm sure you're more then aware. I would tell your obgyn what your day is like and have her write it up what you can and can't do right now, and what you can and can't do after and then show your family. Maybe call your fil's doctors and insurance and see what they can do as far as a home nurse