I agree with you both but I will say...you married him for a reason. How long have u been married? No one is perfect and everyone has issues or something we don't like one way or another but those time is what really let's you know why you are there. When you love someone and they start to fall out of place, change or become a problem you don't just toss them. You continue to work at it. If he has a drinking problem and you love him... well then so do you and you work. Now don't go 100 percent and he's not showing any interest in your concerns. If he doesn't care and isn't trying then don't stress yourself. And if he's been that way and it's annoying or a problem now then I wouldn't try changing him just compromising. Though your hormones are higher now and I'd wait on thinking into divorce unless there is some other issues that are also brining this about. And people don't change over night and some not a month or months or even years. Marriage takes a ton of patience and agreeing to disagree lol. Good luck and congratulations

This is not a one time thing he has done this multiple times and I think it's important for him to start acting like an adult and not like a college frat boy come on it's a baby shower not Sunday night football

It's all your hormones getting to you don't do something you'll regret later on I'm not a hater I'm just saying the truth I understand everyone's part ...every comment but come on he tried having a good time under the stress men stress out as much as you do

Honestly everyone might hate me but come one why get a divorce because he got drunk its not only a big day for you. Its a big day for him also and he enjoyed it as much as he can... I'm sorry but your wrong on your side.

Thank you @mari_c ❤❤

So sorry to hear this! If it's an addiction he does need help. But like you said so little time to do it, but it's best to try and get it fixed before the baby comes. That way he can be a better husband and father! Best of luck to you!❤@alejandra7

@avie and @mari_c, we had this talk many times but he doesn't seem to wants to stop, I think it's a bit selfish but we had agreed to go see a therapist but I think we are dealing with a drinking problem 😭. We are so tight on time we are scheduled for my C-section 4/4 so it makes it kind of hard to make time to see a therapist.

I wouldn't say divorce. Was is it really that bad. Have a talk with him on how he disrespected your decision and your wishes.

Of course it's not your fault. I'm having tons of wine at my shower but my husband says he isn't touching any, hasn't this whole 9 months. Have you had a sit down talk with him? Or are those out of the question? That's really what needs to be done. Because when he's rushing around and when you're hormones are racing you guys won't be able to communicate as well. I'm sorry about this mama. That really sucks 😓 idk your relationship exactly but he could be nervous about baby coming.