Okay I need to rant, my friends posted something on Facebook about people who don't have jobs don't deserve kids. Okay, I explained how I've looked everywhere and nobody will call me back, hire me because I'm pregnant and so on. Well he started basically crapping on me because I'm going to get a little assistance until I can find a job that is worth driving for and keeping. Well it's hard to do that pregnant and the very small towns I live near. Then some of his stupid friends jumped on and started basically calling me dumb, ignorant, lazy and a few choice names I'm not going to say. I was very nice at first then I lost it when they all started crapping on me for being in a sticky situation and trying to get the help my child needs! I need to calm down before I get anymore worked up! It really ticked me off because I've known several people who've been in my situation and all anybody does if judge the hell out of you! They took it as I'm never going to get a job, or I don't want a job. I've cried myself to sleep before because I want a job so bad, it stresses me out because I want to make my own money and not have to rely on my boyfriend! He's not my atm! But that's what everyone is basically telling me to do, is make him pay for everything because he's stepping up for my child (he's not the biological father). Okay well that's not how relationships are supposed to work! 🙄🙄 I hate when people feel they can walk around judging people for no damn good reason!
Every place I've went in they can tell I'm pregnant, I'm already getting bigger so it's obvious I'm pregnant. I live between two small towns, and nobody wants to take a risk working with a pregnant women who is far along because if she was to get hurt its on them, that's literally what 2 different places have told me
I am going to be in your same situation as soon as tax season is over. I will no longer have a job and will be big and pregnant so nowhere in this small town will hire me. I am forced to start my own business and make that work.
@russok2 thank you! I don't know why he felt the need to make me feel bad about myself!