thinking .. i guess ill keep this secrect to my self and i wont tell him

idk i think so

@rivera.stephanie994, I plan to use condoms only. Hopefully they're effective enough. If not then I'll have two little ones. Lol if he felt that way before won't he handle it ok if u tell him? Since it seems like it was his idea anyway.

I think you should have told him & you guys made the choice together as to what to do. If he told you if got pregnant again you would have to get rid of it why wouldnt you tell him so he could have been there for you when got it done?

@morganmommy79, he has told me before if i do get pregnant right right now we wont have and ill have to get rid of it. not becuase e domt want it but becuase it will suffer right now and i was using protection but my body not doseent go withwds very well espically since i alway had irregular periods that couldnt be controled with birth control and one time the condom broke

I always think of it as, would I want to know? I think if he finds out now it may cause problems because he may have wanted the baby. I would be devastated if it were mine and I didn't know and now don't have the chance to have it at all. But I'd also be upset if I found out later and you didn't tell me. Things seem to find a way out of the closet eventually. I'm also against abortion but I'm not here to judge you. I hope things work out for your relationship. Is he easy to talk to? Some guys don't communicate well. Lol

In my opinion that's horrible, it could cause problems in your relationship And he probably be more mad at the fact you didn't talk to him first...it was his child too he has the right to know If y'all are in a relationship and all its wrong not to tell him. I could understand if he was just the sperm donor. And not telling him because you don't want to cause a problem in your relationship is kind of selfish to me. But that's just me,I'm against abortion anyways.. especially after certain point... You can find out gender at 13 weeks. Sorry I'm sure you had a reason and thought it was best.

i was thinking that he dont need to know

Uff thats very strong to tell your boyfriend ! I think you should keep it to yourself not everything your boyfriend needs to know :/ sometimes it can eithier make your relationship stronger or it can ruin your relationship and trust

im trying to tell my boyfriend that i was 13 weeks pregnant and had an abortion but he to buay doing other stuff

What secret