I Just Got The WORST Anxiety Thinking About Who All Is Gonna Be At The Hospital When My Son Is Born ..... I Hope They Won't Stay Long . Hi & Bye , Ya Know ? I Hate Feeling Crowded . I'm Scared I'm Gonna Freak Out . I Already Wanna Be Left Alone & It Hasn't Even Happened Yet 🙄😫😔
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@salihah yeah same here! You are hella cool to talk too.
@lisa_gandy, lol! Thanks ! I'm enjoying the convo ! Haha
@lisa_gandy, I have no idea what rolls my mom and mother in law will have lol oh and my grandma 🙄😂 haha .
@salihah Haha I did the same thing!! But when I started pushing and all that my boyfriends mom took all the pictures.
@lisa_gandy, I'm gonna make my SO in charge of it lol
Hahah I was one of those people. I made sure I knew where my phone was I wanted to take all the pictures I could.
@lisa_gandy, I just did it . If I don't I'll probably forget lol . I see ppl posting pics of them like in the hospital in labor and/or right after the baby's born and I'm like whhaaaatttt? Idk if I'll even know where my phone is once the contractions start 😂
@salihah Yeah I was okay with it not being private before I had her but once I did I turned it on private so I can post pictures of her. I did it while I was getting ready to have her.
@lisa_gandy, okay ! I'm gonna go do that now lol . & me neeiitthheerrrrr . I'm so excited.
@salihah Go to the setting button on the top right hand side of the screen, scroll down to privacy press on it and you swip the top one to the right. Haha I can't wait!!!!!!
@lisa_gandy, how do you do that ? & yesssss , lots of pictures cause I'm gonna be an obsessed stay at home mom 😂 lol
Yea but he didn't have alot. Oh yeah then I think your son will have a head full! Aww I can't wait to see all the pictures, will you be posting pictures? I did but before that I turned my account on private.
@lisa_gandy, was your SO born with hair ? Both me and mine were born with hair so we're thinking he'll have hair too . Hopefully lol . & I hope so toooooo ! He's a cutie in my dreams haha.
@salihah Yess same here! I thought she wasn't going to have any hair because I didn't have any until I was almost 5 month lol. Every time I had a dream about her I could never see her clearly, it was always blurry. You are lucky you can see him, I hope he looks like what you are seeing that would be sooo cool if he did!!
@lisa_gandy, I love to see new babies with heads full of hair 😍 every time I dream of my son he has hair lol . All the dreams I've had of him in the past couple of months he's looked the same . So maybe that's what my baby looks like ! 😂 who knooowwssss . Lol
@salihah Awww thank you so much ❤ I kept asking if she had hair lol.
@lisa_gandy, lol !! I hope my son has lots of hair like your daughter . She's gorgeous by the way
@salihah yeah I think everyone worries about that. The nurses kept playing with my daughter's hair when I was taking a break from pushing lmao 😂
@lisa_gandy, yeah I can see that . I think I'll be scared if he gets stuck or the cord's wrapped around him or something . Imma worry wart so I always think of the worst 🙄
Haha I was the same way. But when I was on the way to the hospital the contractions were so bad and so close together I wasn't thinking about anything else besides pain medication lmao 😂 When I was 10cm dilated and the nurse told me to call her when I felt the urge to push I started getting scared and nervous.
@lisa_gandy, mmm I think at the moment I'm too anxious to get it over with to be scared . I'm excited and want to go into labor sooner than later lol . I think once it's time and I'm On my way to the hospital I'll start to get scared honestly nah
@lisa_gandy, oh nice ! Popular day ! My boyfriends friend told him that we would have ours on the 19th ... I could do that lol & @nycebee, I'm gonna have to find my voice and use it .
Make it be known. Delivery day is about the family your creating
@salihah Thank you ❤ There are a few other moms who had their LO's that day too. I was a day early. My boyfriends friend was over the 20th and he was like your going to have her on my bday which is the 31st and he was right 😃
@lisa_gandy, congrats ! My best friend had her son that same day ! Lol
@salihah Aww congratulations ❤ I bet! I was super excited as well I had my little girl January 31, 2017 I'm also a FTM
@lisa_gandy, thank you ! He's my first so I'm super excited lol
@salihah Hahah yeah good luck!! I can't wait to see all the cute little pictures once you have your baby!! Are you having a girl or boy?
@lisa_gandy, my family is kinda pushy lol ig I'll just have to see how it goes ! Haha
@salihah Don't feel bad I'm sure they will understand.
@lisa_gandy, yeah imma have to . I'm scared I'll feel bad or mean if I have to start asking ppl to go .
@salihah Yeah just make what you want known and don't feel bad about it either, its you and your SO's day no one elses! Hahah yeah of course!!
@lisa_gandy, I think imma start kicking ppl out after like a hour or so . Cause I know I'll be tired . I just hope it doesn't get to that point . I hope they will understand what you would think is common courtesy and leave on their own . I'm 100% positive out of everyone my mom will be there the longest lol
@kylesmom16, my mom , grandma & mother in law will b in the room with my SO & I . Then my grandpa , dad , sisters , step father & friends of my mom ( who are like aunts to me ) will be waiting . I'm already knowing I'm gonna have no control . My moms gonna take over and then there will be a flood of ppl .
@salihah And I told everyone what times to come so not everyone was there at the same time and what time they had to leave so my boyfriend and I can bond with the baby and not have to share her with every lmao
@salihah haha yes! I didn't tell anyone besides the people who were going to be there in the room while I was having my daughter. Once I was moved into my postpartum room I started to tell everyone (it was too late for visitors so they came the day after that) The reason I did that was because I did not want everyone blowing up my phone while I was trying to rest before she came.
@lisa_gandy, I'm gonna try ! Thankfully my SO already told me if it gets outta hand he'll get them out lol
@salihah I felt the same way. You just got to let them know what you want and stand your ground.
@salihah I'll definitely do that 😊