Please no judgment. Jus need advice.

me 😔

Yesss. You need to talk to him and tell him you need affection. My boyfriend used to be so distant and I hated it. It was pushing me away. I actually tried to leave but we talked about why I wasn't happy and he did a complete 180. Nothing can change if he doesn't know how you feel.

I have talked to him about it 😔 @sk216

He says he's affectionate but he's rly not and Idk what to do anymore @sk216

I am not trying to sound like an old hag, but you married him "for better or for worse." Look for a way.

We are not married @concrete

@v.moya, I misread your post. Sorry. Well, then give him an ultimatum. Explain that you need intimacy, tell him exact needs, don't be vague. Men do not read between the lines.

My husband is not affftection at all like not one bit but that's because he was never shown ! I can't complain because he's been like this from the beginning I always have to grab his hand I tell him kiss me I hug him and he just doesn't push me away theirs always a reason why someone is the way they are ! May you should be affectionate if he pushes you away then that's were it turned into a big issue

@sillyval0920 @concrete we have had discussions on what I wanted. It's weird bc he used to be affectionate but Idk what has gotten into him. I will try another discussion and see where it leads. I apologize for the late response. I've just been pondering on how I will let him know that it's affecting me on all angles. I appreciate the advice that was given. And I do call him my husband but we are not married. He started that label a long time ago and it just stuck. Thank you ladies

O problem that's what this app is for all us Mommy's to vent to each other and help each other ! It's always good to talk about ur feeling !! Hope it all works out

Good luck @v.moya.