Mom's are you stuck doing the guy things around the house? Meaning fixing kitchen sinks, lighting the pilot in the…

@lightskinbeauty69 thank you for that I don't hear that often

@ablaub and your an amazing step mamma for that, keep doing you mama

@lightskinbeauty69 exactly I'm doing everything I possibly can to make sure they are took care of and loved

@ablaub, that's is sad

The Kids will know who was there for them and who wasn't.

@lightskinbeauty69 sadly that's going to be the kids. I'm the only one that does anything with them. I'm with them 24/7. I wish the bio mom would give her rights up so I could adopt but she is all about the money

@ablaub my 10 year old can't stand her dad and it's all cuz he never showed her any attention or love

@lightskinbeauty69 men lol

@ablaub hahahaha that's a bunch of bullshit

@lightskinbeauty69 yeah its always "you are not a parent we will always have a unconditionally bond".. complete bullshit if you ask me so I gave up.

@ablaub have you told him how you feel, maybe he needs to hear it

@ablaub, if been with my husband for 10 years and just recently told him I wasn't happy and I'm feeling like I do everything and I never get me time. I feel like it just went in one ear and out the other 😔😠

@lightskinbeauty69 sadly I'm afraid when they grow up they are going to hate both bio parents for not making them 1st. I'm a stay at home parent for them cause they are so attached to me when I leave they cry and it breaks my heart

@ablaub the world needs more step parents like you ❤❤❤.

One day our men will wake up one day and realize they are missing out on everything.

@lightskinbeauty69 it's rough I love these kids more than anything and even though we are not bio I call them mine and I treat them like they are. They are 4 and 2. They are too young to have to go through this

@ablaub 😔😔😔

@lightskinbeauty69 it's frustrating to me cause the bio mom is absent and they only have their dad that will spend maybe of the are lucky 10 mins with them. The game is more important

@ablaub, I'm to the point I'm going to throw his damn computer out the house and run it over with my car

@ablaub, Well your one great step mom then. My husband and I have one child together but I came into this relationship with 2 kids already. It freaking irritates me too dinner time he gives us 10 min of his time then back on the computer and the worse thing is he wears a headset to talk to his " friends " on his game so I have to wait and make sure non of them are talking before I say anything to him Or else he can't hear me. 😡😡😡😡😡😡😠

@lightskinbeauty69 we are in the same boat. I do absolutely everything! As soon as he comes home no family he goes straight to his computer until bed. It's frustrating for me cause the kids are his I am the step mom. I have no kids. I am raising them with no help from him like he doesn't even care. He is so fucking lazy it drives me nutt. He is like a third child. Can't even put his trash in the trash can.

@ablaub Wtf, that's fucked up. I don't see why men are so damn lazy. My husband will sit on his damn computer and play games all fuckin day and just ignore the kids messing up my house, then I get home and I have to clean it up, fixes the broken toilet, unclog the sink, and then he wonders why I'm always in a pissy ass mood

@lightskinbeauty69 thank god it pisses me off. He woke me up at 4 am telling me that the pilot went out in the heater and that it needs to be lite. He was up and getting ready for work. He had time to do it but instead woke me up and made me do it. It took 2 mins...

@ablaub, Nope I do it all and on top of all the house stuff I work 15 hour shift. I'm beyond irritated and fed up.