I have had a lot on my mind lately and now it's affecting my dreams. All of my family, aside from…
I have had a lot on my mind lately and now it's affecting my dreams. All of my family, aside from one of my sisters, lives in SC. I have been in Ohio for two years with my wife. Her mom and sister live 15 min from us. I feel like I want to forbid her sister from seeing our baby. She does not support us being together or having a baby. Even went as far to spread rumors about our pregnancy. We posted a cute announcement on fb and had to remove it bc she convinced most of my wife's friends to all put sad faces on our announcement. Now I feel like my wife is stuck in the middle of our family and hers. She is very upset by all of this. I want my wife to experience all the things pregnant mom's get to experience: baby showers, grandma's being overly excited, and everyone constantly asking questions. But because I'm pregnant and they don't like our relationship, she only gets to experience them giving her the cold shoulder when it comes to this baby. My wife has lost all of her friends thanks to her sister and I try to tell her they weren't really your friends if this is how they treat you during one of the happiest times of your life. My heart truly breaks for her bc I know it's killing her. I wish I could throw a baby shower for her so she can experience all the mom things but idk how that would be possible when it's just the two of us against the world.
Jessica ·
Мама двоих (7 лет, 9 лет), ждёт третьего
That's is terrible im sorry that you are going through this
Kristian·
Мама двоих (11 лет, 13 лет), ждёт третьего
Thanks @jessamarie7284 I just wish I could make it all better for my wife. She is over the moon for our peanut and I just wish she had people excited for her like all mom's should.
Jessica ·
Мама двоих (7 лет, 9 лет), ждёт третьего
I totally understand what you are saying ... Nothing worse then not having the support of your family at such a exciting time ... But you know what every asshole has a opinion that's my motto lol ... And they will be the ones missing out ... All that matters is that you and your wife support each other and love one another and are bringing such a beautiful life and gift In to this world to raise together 🤗
Hazel·
В ожидании первенца
This sucks. I'm so sorry to hear that Hun. People can be such shitheads, especially in times you thought you could count on them the most. It's still early enough to make a few new friends and have them at the shower. If you guys take some prenatal classes you may be able to find some cool people. Have you asked family in SC to come visit before you give birth? Maybe they will.
Kristian·
Мама двоих (11 лет, 13 лет), ждёт третьего
They are all coming right before the birth. They want us to come there so they can throw us a baby shower but there is just no way in hell my body can handle a 14hr drive right now @avie
Alicia Hannah·
Мама двоих (1 год, 7 лет)
I'm sorry your going through that. I know it's tough when you want certain people to be around for exciting things like having a baby and they want nothing to do with it because they don't like who your with. I really am sorry that you guys are going through this and especially when a little baby is on the way. I hope things get better for you guys and her family comes around.
diyonnapowell·
Мама сына (5 лет)
Her friends suck,, butt maybe u can do something small with her, u and the kids...send her out for the day and have the kids draw up something or create something fir the expecting mom...or maybe even a gender reveal for her and the kids if they dnt noe the sex yet.
diyonnapowell·
Мама сына (5 лет)
Good luck,, and ur right...they werent her friends to begin with. I hope all gets better
Jade·
Мама сына-младенца, беременна (25 нед.)
I am so sorry that you gotta deal with that. I used to live in Lorain. Best thing I ever did was get out of Ohio. Is it possible for you guys to move?
Kristian·
Мама двоих (11 лет, 13 лет), ждёт третьего
We are here for my wife's career. She relocates a lot so we may not have to be here much longer. Lorain isn't too bad (where we're at anyways) all her former friends and family are in Elyria so we don't have to see them ever. @jademarie_x0