If you could all stop having babies that would be great 👍 making me so god damn broody 😩 I'm telling…
If you could all stop having babies that would be great 👍 making me so god damn broody 😩 I'm telling myself no more until Charlie is in full time school but I dunna if I can wait seeing all these newborns 🙈🤔
Gabi·
If you want a baby go for it hun obviously if your partner is ok with it too, we started trying when Caitlin was 7/8 months, didn't get pregnant till September and now Caitlin is gonna be 2 weeks away from turning 2 when bubba is born xx
Jo Wilcox·
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@gabilicious, nooo you shouldn't be encouraging me because I'll go for it and I know it's not practical right now 🙈tbh my partner is desperate for us to start trying for another it's me who's saying no! It sounds selfish but it's me who's got to deal with two babies whilst he's at work all day not having to get up with them in the night etc. Plus with my PND I don't want it to get worse as I feel guilty enough on Charlie 😩 x
Gabi·
Awh bless ya I had a rough patch with pnd but since I've been pregnant it's been a lot better, obviously it might not be a case for everyone, my partner is working 24/7 so I'm the one who's looking after Caitlin and the bubs when he's finally here, but I made sure I was mentally ready to do it as I know my husband will help as much as he can even if it means going to work with no sleep, also I got my mum and mother in law around if I need anything even though I hate asking them for help, I do feel a bit guilty but it's because I can't imagine how can I love another human being as much as I love Caitlin but I'm sure that'll pass as soon as I got my baby in my arms, there is difficult days being pregnant with an active toddler but nothing us mums can't handle 💪 do what feels right for you, happy mummy=happy kids xx
Jo Wilcox·
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Yeah same here, my partner works Monday to Friday and doesn't get home until 7 and works most weekends too. I'm on my own though as I moved out of my home town to be wth him. We're living at his parents ATM (currently midway through sorting out moving to our own place) but his mum stays over her friends a lot and his dad is obviously at work so it's just me and Charlie. He's a good dad, I'm not saying otherwise but I feel like he doesn't help out enough. Like he is a great dad but he doesn't bother much f that makes sense? Even when he's not at work it's still all down to me which as a mum it's my job I get that, but it would be nice for him to just offer to feed Charlie or clean his bottles out once In a while ya know? It's good that you've got the support around you! How did you deal with the PND and does it ever go away? 🙄 I have this amazing child that I love with all my heart and more but I'm miserable every single day! Sorry for the essay lol, I don't really talk about my PND so it's nice to talk to someone who's gone through the same! X @gabilicious
Gabi·
Yeah I see what you mean and in regarding to PND I still have my moments but it's better I was seeing a councillor for over a year which helped a ton alongside good medication which I stopped taking as soon as I found out I was pregnant, and it's alright Hun if you ever need anyone to talk to you can always private message me xx
Emily-May·
I know the feeling ! If I had my way with broodyness id be pregnant already with the next one 😂😂😂 and she's only 10 weeks old !
Jo Wilcox·
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@gabilicious, true, only thing is my doctors an arsehole.. I finally got the courage to see him about it and he made me feel like such a dick like I was being pathetic 🙄 aah thank you! @muffinmay, aww I know it's terrible isn't it 🙈 just seeing everyone's pregnancy posts I miss all the excitement of finding out the sex and labour starting knowing you're gonna see your baby soon. Siiiigh 😩 x
Gabi·
That's horrible you should of complained it's their job to be there for us not to make us feel about it xx