Anyone else feel unappreciated by their spouse. I feel like I have stepped out my box to make him feel important and special but I can't get the same in return. I get so mad sometimes because I feel like the only time I'm important is when he wants some ass. I'm a simple girl that just wants a simply gesture showing I'm appreciated without me having to open my mouth and say so. Is that too much to ask for??
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We've had multiple conversations about this. For some reason it just doesn't sink in. He's a great guy and a wonderful dad. I just wish for once he would really take time to hear me. I'm not giving up though cause I know there's things I need to work on as well. But I'm praying God intervene and helps him see himself and see that I'm just not as happy as I know he can make me. Thanks for your words. I appreciate it.
I think people get comfortable and forget relationships take work to keep your spouse interested and that goes both ways @shawan1981, just tell him how your feeling and how you want him to feel cared for but you do also.
@motherotter, agreed!! I have never been a romantic person but I have stepped outside my box and did a lot of different things for him that I would normally not do. I felt I could at least try you know. But like I said it's like he never can do anything for me. I'm not a materialistic person whatsoever not even into getting my hair and nails done (I'm a tomboy still) but I do out fourth the effort at least. And that's all I want him to do is at least show that he's trying, but I can't even get that. It just breaks my heart. I wanna feel special and important.
I had this exact conversation last night with my SO. We were going out and I spent an hour fixing my hair and putting on make up. He grabbed a goofy graphic shirt and cut off shorts. I said I was disappointed that he stopped trying and if he wants the best from me I want him to try too. Men shouldn't expect your best if they can't do the same.
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