This may sound ridiculous, but does the love that we all think of when we're young even exist? I mean, can you really love someone forever? Or do you just fade into that grey zone where you're in it for the kids or you're just to afraid to lose each other even the happiness is gone. Do these things just happen or do we do them to each other? Sorry, I'm in a position I never thought I'd be in, but at the same time, maybe I did. Losing hope here.
@girlmombie00, I agree with @kambam, it just takes lots of work and the more years that go by more work in other areas has to happen. I would sit down have a talk because I think communication is key to solve the issues and start working on bettering your family and relationship