Wow fucking bitch. My friend that I've been talking about lately who is also a mom has now made me…

Wow fucking bitch. My friend that I've been talking about lately who is also a mom has now made me feel like a terrible wife and mom. I was asleep with the boys and my husband went to get the diaper bag and a few bags out of the car. Well she came over and basically asked if I make him do everything. Then he said yes for the most part :'( first off it was fucking behind my back and second why is it any of her business?! I'm close to crying now. I know I've reverted a lot since we moved but I'm trying to get better and it hurts when people bring it up especially when it isn't even to me.