Does anyone else's child's grandparents blame you for them not seeing the child? You all obviously saw my blow up with Xaynes mom but now my father is coming at me and we have NEVER had a relationship my mother raised me, the only time I see my father is around holidays and he just left me a rude message about never seeing "his granddaughter". I definitely run a right ship when I comes to my daughter. No one babysits her, at all. I don't take her to grandparents houses, they have to come here. (Which is five minutes from my fathers house). I personally just do not feel like it is my responsibility to create that relationship I think it is there's and the people who have made that effort have amazing relationships with both Pyper and I and I do take her to see them. For me they have to put forth the effort and then I will. Idk, maybe I'm just spiteful because I hate Xaynes mom and my father and I have no relationship. Who knows. Sorry for the rant this is the only place I can let it out
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@jaaz_sm, YOU DO WEAR THE PANTS! It's your kid!! Omg I can't lol
@virgosweetness,YES omg xayne and I just had to tell his mother she was no longer around because it was such a huge issue that she doesn't get "alone time with Pyper" NO ONE DOES. I do not owe that to ANYONE, if I don't think I'm ready to leave Pyper alone with someone, I don't have too! I'm so glad you understand. I was starting to think I was crazy
exactly. u r right on. my sons mimi says I'm stingy because I don't let my baby boy stay the night with them or watch him. I am a family girl I am with my kids 24/7. why do I need someone to watch him. no one has watched him nor needs to, that's what mommys are for. me and my boyfriend don't have money to go do anything fancy and really we r happiest doing everything together as a family. I get u girl
Omg , i have the same problem with my MIL ! Like last week she was supposed to get our son because are car has no tags & got mad when I said the car wasnt moving & we couldn't take to him to her . She has the nerve to say she sees who wears the pants in the relationship ! 😴 also that we make up excuses for her not to see her grandson .
I will be going back to work on 7/3 and my MIL is going to watch my son. I'm terrified. I have a nap routine in place and I've asked to show her so that his life is stable and she is refusing. I'm worried that I will be replaced. She always makes comments about him waiting to smile or laugh for her because all he needs is his Mimi. Drives me crazy.