When my ex just copy and pastes the same text to me every day asking " how's Andrew today" he…

I would give him the same basic answer everyday "fine". If he asks at a ridiculous time I wouldn't even give myself the 5 seconds to answer him. He can at least ask at a reasonable time and act like he cares. Sounds like he's just trying to be a douche on purpose!

I do give him the same answer every day! But I take all day to answer. He is doing it to be a douche he doesn't really care! If he did he would go about it in a different manner. He's such a pos @simplyshantell,

Lol... he's just super immature sounding! I'm sorry you have to deal with that. Honestly thinking about it I'd maybe take a couple of days just to answer him.. however long it takes for him to actually start to show he cares. Till then I wouldn't say anything.

I would but we're in the process of going to court for everything and I don't want him to use it against me in some way😕 otherwise I keep it super simple. I try to have the least contact with the douche as possible not to mention he's very mentally abusive so that's another reason. @simplyshantell,

Oh, then in that case I applaud you even more! For not being immature and dealing with it as best as you can despite him purposefully being an ass. That takes a ton of self control 👌 lol. The less you act like it phases you, the more it will tick him off 😉

For real! And thank you I'm trying to be the bigger person. He hates that I'm basically ignoring him and that I'm not giving in to his manipulation and controlling ass! He can go play in traffic!🙂@simplyshantell,

He obviously still cares about you or else he wouldn't care to play these mind games with you lol. The more you tone his games out by being the bigger person the more aggressive he'll become, or maybe there's a chance he will stop his games and grow up. Either way it's a win win..

Probably even better for you if he lashes out for the court to see.

I doubt he'd do anything in court just behind closed doors to me. I hope he grows up! He always tells me I need to but clearly it's him. He never takes the fault for anything he always turns it on me always! He really is immature he has a hissy fit when he doesn't get his wAy and freAks out on me in a really mean wAy he can't ever just talk to me normal the. He wonders why I don't communicate with him on anything cause their is no talking to him about anything without him belittling me and being an asshole. @simplyshantell,

I mean even through text messages if he lashes out, that way the judge ruling your case can see how impossible it is to just be an adult trying to communicate with him because he is trying to provoke a reaction out of you by texting you at obsurd hours a question like that.. its all to provoke a reaction out of you. Quite sad tbh. It's okay though, people make mistakes at first we choose to see the good in people until true colors start to shine over time. You're doing great by being mature and not giving into his games, you deserve better then that!

I have all our texts saved. And you are right he tries to get a rise out of me which normally works but lately I've just not bothered he's not worth my time! He's a pathetic excuse for a man and a father. And he sure did let his true colors shine after I got pregnant. I'm trying my best it's not easy with him! @simplyshantell,

Lol, you should be uber respectful at times.. like when he texts you, answer him like 8 hours later and apologize for the late response and be a complete suck up and see what he does 😂

Be like " I'm so sorry for the late response! He's doing good, he did _____ today, so yea. Hope you have a good day" .. lmao . He'd eventually be like.. wtf? Lol.

He's not worth that trust me! He'll think I want him back 😳 I'd rather have teeth pulled. He's not the man I thought he was. 😒@simplyshantell,