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Jennifer
Jennifer
Мама сына (5 лет), беременна (33 нед.)

Ladies I need ur help. My son is almost 6. And for the past few months he has made a few comments about not having a…

Ladies I need ur help.

My son is almost 6. And for the past few months he has made a few comments about not having a dad. Hes never like cried or anything about it. But he keeps making comments

So I'm thinking its time to sit down and have that talk with him. Which I don't want to but i feel like its needed now.

(His dad has never been involved. He totally abondoned us when I was preg. Never came to the hospital when I had my son and has never attempted to See us)

So my question to u all is what do I say to my son? How do I word it where a 5 yr old can understand and so he doesn't feel upset or like he's not loved? 😭

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tatiananoelani

Tatiana

Мама двоих (1 год, 1 год)

Don't bad mouth the father, you can simply say that he wasn't ready to be a dad, but that's why you're his super mom being both roles, if he has men in his life he looks up to let him know that those men will always be there for him when he needs a guy to hang out with. And most importantly let him know that it was never and never will be his fault

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