It's beautiful to see all of the mothers with their babies here. I only have my son and sometimes it's a lot for me. His dad (ex husband) is basically still here but I'm so nervous about my son meeting another boyfriend. My ex and I were together about seven months and Micah loved him. The man before him and I were together a little over a year. He loves my son more than he loved me. Anyway these are the only two men I have been with or had my son around and both times they talked about marriage but they revealed their truths and were both deal breakers. I have been on two dates with someone and he asked me if it made me nervous to bring my son around him. I automatically put the walls up and told him it was too soon. He said that he understood I'm a single mother and that I spend the majority of time with my son so he just wanted to be a part of that. My instincts as a mom are red flagging this man but he is great so far. I should give more time to see more of him before introducing my son is what I have learned, but then am I making him pay for others' mistakes? Or am I just being a good mama?
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Ur being a good momma my 2nd babydaddy is the only one to meet my kids.
Defiently, its hard to be momming and dating. But you made a good choice. Until you are ready and until you are ready for your son to meet someone your serious about, i would hold off until then.
@lizibear84, thank you. It's easy to forget about myself because I concern myself with what and how my son feels you know. I just want to protect him from being hurt by anybody as much as I can.
@paisleysmom9, thank you so much. I don't want him confused and I definitely don't want to have to explain to him another time that he won't see somebody anymore. They still contact my son but I know when I become serious with someone they will probably have an issue with that. It's just a lot to think about, his dad and I didn't work and it almost seemed easier to stay with him and deal with his crap hit my mom did that for me and my siblings and I vowed not to do it, because my son deserves a happy home.
You are right its to soon, i would wait till your comfortable, the thing is you dont want your son confused or upset. Until you know you can trust this man or even until the guy wants to be serious. I would slowly introduce him to your son if it comes serious @mahogany.foster but for right now i think you are doing what is right. Your being a great momma
You have to do what's right for you both emotionally, but it sounds like you're being a great mom!
@datnavajogirl, thank you. I'm just gonna keep it like it is for a while.