I agree the sooner you find out the sooner you can get your head around it. You may be stressing for nothing. There are many reasons periods can be late. I was regular mostly but occasionally they'd go out of sync. I always took a test to rule that out. You say your stressing so even if you didn't do a test sounds like you won't enjoy your birthday. Your an adult with a baby & unfortunately you can't ignore it for too long. Best to find out & go from there. I'd like to add I'd feel the same if it were to happen to me. We could not deal with another baby right now. But hiding away wouldn't change the situation.

@liligandypants Hmmm but if you really want to wait :) then its up to you :) but like I said..periods can be all over the place and not regular..ca take awhile for them go settle :) You may be upset if it is positive...but im sure that will be replaced with happiness soon enough xx

There's no night out.. just family time @winterbaby95

I don't drink @winterbaby95

@liligandypants I think its better to take a test now and it being positive...to talking one after and it being positive...youll feel guilty for drinking. If it was me and i thought there was a possibility i was pregnant...id take a test before going on a night out. Not worth the risk to an unborn child xx

I can't @winterbaby95 , it's my birthday weekend and I know if I take a test and it's positive, I'll be so upset

@liligandypants Things happen for a reason :) Didnt plan to have a baby as soon as I did...but wouldnt change anything for the world :) I would take a.test in the morning hun....then you can go from there...i deffo think it would stop you worrying if you new the answer for certain cc

I just want to cry @winterbaby95

@liligandypants Ahh chances are low...but saying that..my daughter is the result of having protected sex (condom) xx

@winterbaby95 thank you for your message.. no unprotected sex. Using condoms x

I think youd be somewhat less stressed if you took a test...then whatever the outcome decide from there. Have you had unprotected sex? If so then possibility you could be pregnant....hmm but periods tend to be all over the place after a baby xx