I'm feeling hurt and a little down. I had my LO and her dads family(my in laws) didn't help out with the shower, didn't come visit at the hospital even once she was moved to the NICU, when we got home nobody came past to check up on us or anything. Now my fiancé, his sister just had her son and now we have to throw a surprise baby shower, help clean her house and help with her bills.
Long story short I'm some what hurt but mostly pissed off. I had a complicated pregnancy after a second trimester miscarriage. I just feel so alone for being angry about this. I want to help but it's tearing me up inside.
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@andreamichele, that is a good idea I really have to get my thoughts together so I can get my point across without saying a lot of stuff that I can't take back. Thanks for the advice! 💜
So sorry!! That's really hard! this may sound totally stupid and my husband didn't understand at first but when I get really upset or mad, I write a letter! That way I know I don't blow up and I have time to collect my thoughts and I wont say anything I don't mean! That's the best way for me to cope with situations like that! That's hard though and definitely unfair to you! I would be hurt as well! 😢
@renee556, I haven't told him directly being that I know I would go off on him. Don't get me wrong I don't mind his sister that much but she also wasn't at our house helping use when we were down (which we still are.) I'm just angry enough to start a war! Lol
@love_hope.9248, right I'm like we got a sink full of dishes right now! If you want to clean, clean that! I was beyond pissed at that part! Lol 🤔🙃😤
I know how and what your going through babes.... Some families are just like that... I know the feeling 100%
I wouldn't do sh** especially cleaning up someone else's house
@miller13, I felt so hurt like wow I may not be related by blood but my daughter is and they all left her out. I already decided I'm not helping but I just need him to understand why I don't like this idea.
@beebaby, that was my thought like I don't want to help at all! I just wanted to keep the peace cause I felt like once I open my mouth it's on!
I just wanted to tell hubby like we got our own bills and the rest of y'all family always come through for her so she'll be okay. Lol
@baebeeislife .... @beebaby is right you don't have to do anything... That definitely is not fair towards you and disrespectful towards you
@beebaby I agree with you. @baebeeislife have u talked to your fiancée, and let him know how u feel?
@baebeeislife, you are so so welcome! Hopefully it will help you as much as it did me!!