I don't get why parents don't want to spoil their kids????? Why do you not want to help your child…
I don't get why parents don't want to spoil their kids????? Why do you not want to help your child buy a car if their doing good in school? Saves you time and gas money. Why do you not want them to go to the movies with their friends? Why is it so bad to give your child things? I look forward to buying homecoming dresses and not worrying about the price....Within reason....or just buying them a damn toy for no reason. It's not spoon feeding them. Like we know children are expensive, continue to have them, then complain they're expensive????
Lisa Marie ·
@hiswifetheirmama I 100% agree with you! I now understand where my parents were coming from when I was younger.
Delia·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (37 нед.)
Agree^ its about teaching them they can't have a bad attitude or act up in school and still think they can get things. They will expect things to be handed to them and that's not good.
Monica·
I think it's more that you don't want to spoil them with things they don't deserve. Like, I would buy my son a car, so long as he was responsible. I'd send him to the movies or just out with friends, so long as he kept up his schoolwork. Give him money to buy things so long as I knew he wouldn't spend it on drugs. He'd have to do some chores, clean up after himself, understand that money and having stuff aren't everything, and that somehow you have to earn what you have. I wouldn't bend to his every wish and will, but I have no problem with making sure he has the things he needs.
Haha, we mutter sometimes about how kids are so expensive, but we knew that going in, and it's worth it.
kailey smith·
Мама дочки (2 года)
@nomaci, that's exactly what I mean!!!