So... should a guy your getting married to delete a girl from fb that you feel threatened by??

Eh if theyre talking or something thats one thing...id say yes because it makes you uncomfortable. If shes just one of his fb friends i wouldn't make a giant deal out of it but he should respect how you feel and take that into consideration

He talks to girls that I don't even know behind my back.. and I feel like he's always hiding something.. @jcbaby

Me and my boyfriend don't have social media. It was a mutual decision and done nothing but cause problems. Been together for almost 3 years now

@courtt , so you don't have a fb or anything?

Nope. Best decision we ever made for our relationship

@courtt , I don't think my fiance would be up for that.. He has his whole family on there and marine friends on there

If they meant that much to him he'd have their numbers. I've herd that excuse from way to many people in my past. But it's yalls relationship. I'm just informing you on what worked for us

If she's been trying to talk to him and flirt, or if she's messaged you threatening you then yes he should! But if she hasn't said anything to either of you then I'd say no, not until she actually tries something. Don't let her get under your skin! Look who he is marrying! You not her!

Depends ... why do you feel like she is a threat ?

My husband stopped using his FB when we got engaged. Two years of marriage later and he finally went back to FB to talk to old military friends and high school friends. Only reason he really has one is to brag about his daughter to be honest. We share all passwords to any social media accounts. We tell each other passwords from our email account, Facebook, even something as simple as Pandora accounts. But that's why works for us.

Yea Kinda... I mean I have no idea who she is he's never mentioned her before and he did a live feed on fb for our gender reveal and added her to it... so this girl who I never heard of or met has seen my whole family and knows what I'm having..@cglenn11

Have you asked him who she is?

Yea, he said she's an old work friend, but it's hard to believe him...

My husband would do anything for me. If I didn't like or felt threatened by some girl on his fb then he would definitely delete her. We have eachothers passwords for everything. We don't keep secrets. If he won't give you his password or something then I would feel like he is hiding something. You need to establish trust to have a healthy marriage

I know.. where going to couples therapy...

I hope and pray for the best for you.

I would try to find out more info I was you. And why is it hard to believe him ? Has he lied to you before?

I told him that I didn't like him talking to other girls that I don't know and that if he told me who they are to begin with and stuff then I won't have a problem with it, but he keeps proving that he can't do it..

@cglenn11

Well that's a problem then simply because he is being disrespectful to you. I have been through similar situations in the past and it only got worse I'm not trying to be negative just being realistic. I have been married for nine years and people only change if they want to.

And it's not that he can't do it , he's choosing not to do it which again is not ok

@cglenn11, I know... He says he wants to change and that I mean everything with him.. but I haven't seen a change...

I'm sorry your going through this I know how it feels but actions always speak louder than words. Do what you feel is best in your heart. Everyone deserves to be treated with love and respect 😉