I need to vent before I explode
I need to vent before I explode
My mom (who's disabled) stays with me. I make sure she has food thru out the month something to drink I sit with her sometimes (rarely) because we always end up fussing, I make sure she gets the things she needs not to mention I recently lost my job which makes things a lot harder. So yesterday she sent me a text saying chaze does for her && no one else does. Chaze is my brother. He brought her a breakfast sand which like 5 times this year compared to what I do for her on a daily basis. But no one but him does for her tho. She says I'm ungrateful and evil also. Would I be wrong it get my own place && leave her here. Just up && move? Idk what to do.
Jillian·
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@xclusivebarbie tell her she can go live with Chaze if thats how she feels. Youre not going to put yourself out there for her not to be greatful for it
Monique Wallace·
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@jcbaby, Chaze doesn't have a place to stay he stays with his baby mama. I gave up my life to help her && this is the thanks I get.
Maria·
Honestly, I am very cold if it comes to my mom bc she pulls things like that too - I love her and do everything for her but sometimes she acts fully irrational!
I'd tell her, ok - if I don't do anything, I'll show you what anything looks like... and would show it to her for a week or so till she realizes her mistake!
Monique Wallace·
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@mi.mommy, great minds think alike. I started that this morning. Every time she asks me to do something I tell her call chaze. 😂but I did fix her breakfast this morning.
Monique Wallace·
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@ncmomma I thought about the nursing home but her sisters would be mad at me even tho they not taking care of her. Im really considering just up && move let the landlord know since everything is in my name && telling her she has 2 weeks to find somewhere to go.
Maria·
I took my mom in as well and the first year was tough- she complained about everything! I couldn't even talk in my room bc she complained I talk to loud... I told her that she is happy to find a new place and someone else to take care of her bc I have limits too!
I would give her a heads up and first see how she behaves after this week! If it doesn't change, tell her that you are tired and need to focus on you and your family and that you will move out...
Having someone being mad at you will pass too - maybe the nursing home would help your relationship with her!
Btw, ended up moving out and given her my place 😂
Monique Wallace·
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@mi.mommy, my mother literally complains about EVERYTHING. When I cook it's not seasoned the way she wants it or by the time she gets it it's. it hot hot she complains if I don't cook she complains if I don't check on her she complains if I do she complains. She bitches about everything. It's aggy && I'm tired of it.
Monique Wallace·
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@ncmomma, you are so right. If they want her they can come get her.
Ally·
I would be like fine, he does so much, he can care for u. Let him move in. U move out. See how that goes.
Monique Wallace·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
@allyk.xmommy, exactly ! They will be homeless within a month !