I purchased a fetal Doppler.. of course my new hobby is listening to baby #2 heartbeat. Is this safe or should I not?
Its perfectly safe to use the doppler. It's just sound waves bouncing off the baby. The reason Dr's recommend you don't do it is because it's meant to be used by professionals who have been trained to know what they are hearing and you can stress yourself out for no reason. You literally gave to be right on top of the heart to hear anything. Just leave it to the drs
Don't do it all the time... it's not good for the baby. But I definitely understand your concern. I wanted to do the same thing but I just tried to worry myself.

I will be 41 :/
Short Luteal Phase?
I've just started temping because I believe that the reason I haven't had a BFP yet, after 20 months, is because I believe I may have a Luteal Phase Defect.
Things I never thought I'd say...
Until I became a mom:
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Omg! I just realized you live in Irmo... I went to Dutch fork for a short period but my mom still lives in irmo in heather stone.