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I am actually hating my SO right now. He usually gets off at 9:30 and right now it's 11. Every night, and yes I mean…

I am actually hating my SO right now. He usually gets off at 9:30 and right now it's 11. Every night, and yes I mean every night except Sundays on rare occasions, he'll be out til almost 2:30am hanging out with friends and smoking. I've gotten use to it and tolerated it since he's young, he's 20, and is trying to enjoy life before it becomes all about a baby but I really thought that as it gets closer to my due date he would slow down and chose to be home for me for when my back hurts or I start to feel a little ill. But no, I'm here all alone trying to rub my own back while over a toilet in case I throw up cause I won't be able to get up fast enough if I do. I texted him to see if he could come back a bit sooner. He just got an attitude cause he wanted to go to his friends house (and smoke of course cause that's all that matters) and then said "I can bring you Tylenol". I told him okay whatever. And then he texts me saying "I'll be home later" and doesn't even bring the Tylenol. I can't be more pissed and sad. I just wanna yell and curse at him but I'm too weak to even get into an argument. And all I can think about is having the same thing happen when I have an infant cause he thinks it's okay to stay out late cause she'll be sleep and he "doesn't have to be there".

Okay. I'm sorry I'm done ranting and raving.

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ourdestiny17

Destiny KingМама дочки-младенца

oh same shit is happening to me right after I had my baby WTF is wrong with guys right now... it's bull because we all know if we did the same exact thing they would be flipping out

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deja2017

Deja DurantВ ожидании первенца

Thank you guys! Having other support really makes me feel better and not so lonely ❤❤❤ @avie @jerryjrmommy @valenzuelafam @alanasmommy2016

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alanasmommy2016

Sara Cruz

My boyfriend does the same thing but some nights he doesn't come home at all. He stays at his friends. Since the last time we fought about it, he's calmed it down a lot so he hardly does it anymore. I just feel like if I were to do that and leave him at home with the baby, it'd be the end of the world. I just figured it's a phase that he's going through. If you need someone to talk to, you can always message me :)

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avie

HazelВ ожидании первенца

You really shouldn't have to deal with that especially at 31 weeks 😓

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avie

HazelВ ожидании первенца

Sorry Hun. Mommas are here if you need to talk 💙

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jerryjrmommy

Ken'ushaМама сына (1 год)

ma'ma I'm sorry you are going through this you shouldn't have too that this point he needs to cut all the time with his friends you and the baby comes first and foremost,,!!did you try telling him how you felt?@deja2017 but on the other hand I understand what you going through I've been through it myself so if you need to talk are rant/vent I'm a message away!😊i hope it gets better

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deja2017

Deja DurantВ ожидании первенца

Also, that wasn't even his phone I was texting it was his friends cause his phone died.

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