I'm so frustrated. *Long post*Please tell me I'm not in the wrong here! My niece has had head lice for a VERY long time (close to 6 years! With only a handful of times I can recall she didn't have them) and my mom has a verbal custody agreement where she has my neice every other weekend since my brother passed away. My mom finally ended up getting lice too for the first time and my daughter has gotten it 3 times now. I have gotten rid of the lice every time within a week or two but my niece always has nits or live bugs or both. My son has extremely sensitive skin and severe allergies. I can't even feed him preservatives so if he were to get lice, I would have to shave his head. He's only 19 months and I would hate to have to do that so I told my mom that we have decided to stay away until the lice problem is dealt with for them both. My moms head is clear now but my niece is still full of nits and sees my mom every other weekend. There's exposure every time so I told my mom I didn't want to risk it. Is it wrong of me to chose to stay away from my mom till it's gone off my niece too?