@schaunice11, good for you! Don't ever settle for someone like that again! After my ex and I split I literally made a list of requirements to date me... and when someone showed interest I simply handed them the card and asked, 'is this you?' They would usually look at me crazy, after a few dates my list continued to grow... until I met the man who is now my husband! I had 15 requirements and after a few dates I met his parents, I gave his mother my list and said is this your son? She sorta looked at me funny, read my list, and said honey if I did not know any better I'd say you wrote that list after you met him! He's the greatest gift God has ever given me! Don't get me wrong some days he makes me crazy! Lol but I'd never want to walk this path with anyone else! 😘 Your future is already brighter just by taking that darkness out!