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nessairieray
𝒩𝑒𝓈𝓈𝒶 𝒫𝑜𝓁𝒾𝓉𝑜·Мама дочки (4 года), беременна (19 нед.)

Question for all mommies 🤔 I know the doctor says to wait 4 to 6 weeks to have sex again after baby is born but did anyone have sex before then? & did anything happen?

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bria
bria·Мама дочки-младенца

It was uncomfortable and no you don't get bc until your post Partum appt

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nessairieray
𝒩𝑒𝓈𝓈𝒶 𝒫𝑜𝓁𝒾𝓉𝑜·Мама дочки (4 года), беременна (19 нед.)

Omg that sounds so scary! I didn't know anything about that I had Clamsia that gave me high blood pressure it was frickin horrible! 😫@dawnrose, thanks girl your right! We'll see what happens 😃 @sbusse1108,

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lakota-winyan
dawn·Мама дочки-младенца

I just got my first period on the 13th it lasted 5 days. I bleed for about 9 days PP

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gone.

Above everything listen to your body. Pregnancy and labor are hard-core and the most important thing after is your healthy recovery, definitely not sex. Obviously there are other things you can do in the mean time. But it's really going to feel like jelly and be uncomfortable for a while. Your husband will get over it. Don't do anything you're uncomfortable with and don't put your recovery and health at risk for it.

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lakota-winyan
dawn·Мама дочки-младенца

my baby was only 7lbs and 18 1/2inches

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lakota-winyan
dawn·Мама дочки-младенца

it's an abnormal blood clot. it was the most painful shit (recovery) I went through that entire pregnancy.

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nessairieray
𝒩𝑒𝓈𝓈𝒶 𝒫𝑜𝓁𝒾𝓉𝑜·Мама дочки (4 года), беременна (19 нед.)

Hahahaha 😂😂😂 how long did your period last for? @dawnrose,

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lakota-winyan
dawn·Мама дочки-младенца

they say to wait that long to give you proper time to heal, at 2 wks your body is still trying to rid all the shit that's been in there for the past 40 wks

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nessairieray
𝒩𝑒𝓈𝓈𝒶 𝒫𝑜𝓁𝒾𝓉𝑜·Мама дочки (4 года), беременна (19 нед.)

What is that??? Omg I hope my baby stays small so my coochie don't go threw that lol @dawnrose,

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lakota-winyan
dawn·Мама дочки-младенца

I waited 6 weeks. I had 2nd degree tearing and got. hematoma. it hurt like all hell when we had sex. I'm 12 wks pp and it finally feeling normal. I swear they stitched me too tight or something.

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nessairieray
𝒩𝑒𝓈𝓈𝒶 𝒫𝑜𝓁𝒾𝓉𝑜·Мама дочки (4 года), беременна (19 нед.)

Thanks! I guess we'll have to see how everything works out 😊😃 the last time I asked my doctor that's exactly what she told me she's like oh no stay away from sex haha @sbusse1108,

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gone.

They tell you more or less to wait because everything inside of your body is healing and they don't want you getting any type of infection. Sex will be really weird your first time. And yeah, it might hurt a little. Take it slow, and if you're not ready, by all means don't do it. Because you really don't want to risk your body for one night of sex. Sex is supposed to be enjoyable remember that, and use caution if you go against doctors orders. My husband and I waited about a month before we did anything but at that point I was using tampons as well.

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nessairieray
𝒩𝑒𝓈𝓈𝒶 𝒫𝑜𝓁𝒾𝓉𝑜·Мама дочки (4 года), беременна (19 нед.)

Omg great!!! lol I was little scared at first I tore with my first pregnancy and sex was painful after that but I'm all excited now that I don't have to wait that long haha @mommyofsoontob3,

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nessairieray
𝒩𝑒𝓈𝓈𝒶 𝒫𝑜𝓁𝒾𝓉𝑜·Мама дочки (4 года), беременна (19 нед.)

Oh yeah for sure girl if I have a c section we're waiting lol 😂 thanks for letting me know @mkroon518,

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mkroon518
Michelle·Мама двоих (1 год, 9 лет)

😂 well I think it would be more about how you feel, if you tore, etc 😁 I had a c section and there was definitely nothing happening until that sucker of a scar healed up!! 😉

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nessairieray
𝒩𝑒𝓈𝓈𝒶 𝒫𝑜𝓁𝒾𝓉𝑜·Мама дочки (4 года), беременна (19 нед.)

My husband is 19 😂 that guy is never too tired and he flipped out when I told him how long we had to wait lol @mkroon518,

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nessairieray
𝒩𝑒𝓈𝓈𝒶 𝒫𝑜𝓁𝒾𝓉𝑜·Мама дочки (4 года), беременна (19 нед.)

But did it hurt? Or was it painful? That's good 2 weeks sounds better than 6 lol and we're you on birth control during that time? I know the doctor says we're more fertile once we have a baby @bria,

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mkroon518
Michelle·Мама двоих (1 год, 9 лет)

Depends on if you had a C-section or not...:-/ I think we were both too tired to anyway. Haha!

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bria
bria·Мама дочки-младенца

I waited 2 weeks and I was fine. I stopped bleeding and then got a period right after smh (I didn't breastfeed though)

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Just curious..

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