hello moms of the world. I'm sure I'm not the only one going threw this situation but inside my home I feel so alone. I am a mother of three wonderful monsters :). 4 girl,5 girl,8 boy. And my boyfriend of 6years. I bust my but from the moment I wake to get the kids ready for school until I pass out doing whatever chore it is im doing after they go to bed. My man doesn't lift a finger most days.. now I'm ok with being a SAHM and I actually love to clean and organize but what bothers me is he doesn't offer to help me or just do certain chores just bc he wants to help me he waits for me to say something to him. But he also doesn't seem interested in even playing with the kids. He doesn't help discipline unless I ask him to step in. Is there anyone else in my shoes.
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@hkitty84, I get stressed out and mad about it then I learn how to suppress it again and move on
@katlovesj, girl we have had multiple talks about the same problems. He is a bad talker.. he gets all up in arms and defensive and the talk turns into fighting and someone walking away bc they don't want to hear anymore. So it's gotten to the point where I don't talk about anything anymore and just do it all myself.. yard needs cut.. I'll do it.. trash can full.. I just do it. He doesn't even know what day is trash day ladies. I feel like her cares zero percent about home life.. and his family tells me its be he's so stressed with making ends met here it takes over his whole brain. So that means the kids and I get left out
@mrclbaby1985 it sucks having that alone feeling. I hear ya I wish my husband would help out more as well. I get so stressed out.
Sounds like u need to talk to him to help u out @mrclbaby1985
@mrclbaby1985 but still the kids pickup on it and are going to feel unwanted and not loves by him trust me it happen to me but thank u for being an amazing mom to ur kids