My SO has cheated in the past and I have tried to work past it. But now after finding out some hurtful things last night about a person he cheated on me with and I didn't even know about it. I feel like I am back at square one. I'm back to crying and feeling like I did before. Should I let it go because it was so long ago? Or should I be even more hurt because the lies never stop. We have 2 children together, our apartment, everything we have: we got together. I don't know what to do but I know this hurts 😖💔
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If he cheated on you once he'll do it again. You will always live in a constant state of suspicion that'll tear you down and reck your self-confidence and trust in him or any man after him. Not healthy for you or your children. Be strong for you and your children. Move on.
I have been in this situation and I can tell u it will eat u up u will always think about it and just have resentment towards him for it I had to leave!! 💗 hope everything works out for you
I tried and tried with my ex... finally drew a line in the sand, and he walked away never looked back... I was crushed by had faith that God would restore me.. and that he did! I'm now married to a wonderful man, who would never disrespect me or our family by lying or cheating... I'm so thankful that I refused to allow my ex's behavior
Cheaters don't change. And you will never truly be able to trust him again regardless of what he says. I know it's tough but you and your kids deserve more. I would get out as soon as possible. There are plenty of great men in the world! Leave and never look back is the best option.
If you move on from the past make a decision to forgive and leave it alone. Otherwise, you'll always be in the same situation. Yes it will pop up. Yes it will hurt years from now when u think if it again but if u make that choice to leave it in the past your relationship can work as long as he's willing to change and not repeat it.
I feel your pain. My boyfriend of almost 7 years in May has done the say thing. He hasn't "slept" with anyone behind my back is what he says but I don't know. He keeps doing it and my dumb self keeps staying with him. We have a son together and my daughter is his step daughter but he considers her his daughter. I don't want to start over with someone else and I don't want to throw away 7 years of my life.
I have been in a similar situation with my SO and when I found out new information I was hurt for awhile again also but for my family I decided to swallow it and move on. But I can tell you it's been two years since that and I don't think a day goes by where I don't think about all of that stuff. Probably bc I never got it off my chest and now I have built up resentment towards him.. good luck in your journey. Keep ur head high.
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