I'm feeling some kinda of way... I made my best friend the godmother the minute I found I was pregnant. Her sister found out she was preggers before I did. I have never felt like my pregnancy was ever as important as the sisters. And I understand that's your fam. But like I have always felt like I'm placed as second like not good enough. I told my bestie that I wanted her there for the birth. Next thing you know her sis asked her she forgets I completely had asked her and that's when I'm like pushed to the side. My baby shower plans have to wait to till February bc her sis baby shower was in January. But then she is due in February so it's like when are we gonna have time to plan. So I start doing my own thing. I mean I can't wait for people like she made it seem like in any given moment she had to stop her world for her sis and I get it. But I'm the godmother to her daughter and I did everything so this is were my feelings are getting to me. Then her sis gives birth and tells my bestie she is the godmother. Sooooo I'm chopped liver yet again. Oh I know Zayn was supposed to be my first. Sure. Oh then that's two for me. No. That's your first. My son is just a left over since the beginning and I have to stay quiet bc my feelings in the matter don't really seem to matter. Like what's the point in trying to involve people when it's like it make you feel like you got it I kinda don't really have to be there or help or make you feel like your pregnancy matters. But I made her feel like I had her back 100% when she was pregnant. And now that I am it's like a normal day nothing has changed. It's more about everyone else and if I say something I'm the one in the wrong. I have a lot to think about. Bc it's not fair.
-sorry for the rant but I couldn't hold it anymore
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I would throw my own babyshower with or without her and i definitely would not let her be my childs godmother if shes acting like this now then whats the point ?
Sorry you are going through this. And this is why I just presented my children in church with no god parents cause people, family or friends don't even surprise me anymore. I had baptized my "best friends" daughter & we don't even talk anymore. Over something so small and stupid. Even some of my family members aren't suitable to be god parents. I understand where you are coming completely and I feel if you guys are so close maybe you should just tell her how you feel. What's the worse that can happen? I do hope you guys are good after this. Just know sometimes people don't care for friendships as much as you do. 💕🙏🏻 god bless
If I was you I wouldn't let her be my child's godmother. I wouldn't want someone to be choosing me second when I'm choosing them first to be my child's godparents. But thats just my opinion.
I'm so sorry to hear that. :( I know the feeling and it's absolutely the worst. :(
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@lovemel, @mommyofdoubletrouble, @mommysarah7, @xfatalnikkix, thanks ladies for your support and understanding. I had to send her a message after I wrote this bc I had to tell her how I felt. She understood and apologized. I have been planning my baby shower. I learned from my second pregnancy not to trust anyone with that responsibility.