Got told today that if I don't start trying to make another baby and give Henry a sibling I'll be a bad parent and he will be a spoiled brat who gets everything he wants because he's an only child....
1. Uuuhhhm..Excuse you, it's not your place to tell me when to have children, or how many I need to have.
2. I've seen first hand how kids behave when you give them whatever they want , the second they ask for it. I will not be raising my son to act that way. Yes, he will get spoiled here and there. But he'll also know that not everything in life is going to be handed to him. He'll have earn the things he wants.
3. You don't even have kids! You can't tell me what to do with mine when you've got zero experience even babysitting a child. Swerve right the hell out of here child.
Sorry! Rant over! Tired of people telling me I need to have another baby already. My sons not even 5 months old yet. And we haven't decided when or even if we want more children. Just sick of it all.
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As an only child, I can say it's not guaranteed that an only child will be a spoiled brat. You can have one kid and still teach them everything they need to know (from respect, that they won't always get what they want, to how to be a good person, etc) so that person is absolutely ridiculous.
No one has the right to tell you how many kids you should have. (My mum tried telling me I should only have one. She's no longer in my life.)
Anyone who doesn't have kids of their own really shouldn't be putting in their 2 cents anyway.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
I find it very alarming when we see for MONTHS “My husband doesn’t want another child”...”He wants to wait”...”he won’t have sex with me”....and then you keep trying to conceive anyways and when you do get pregnant ask us all a cute way to announce it to him? This is entrapment....conceiving behind someone’s back then unveiling it as a gift seems so incredibly disturbing to me..
End rant.
@youngbeautifulmommyof3 ... I legitimately would like to adopt your child if you would message me or tell me the process I’ve always wanted a baby girl
This chick that works with my boyfriend really confessed her love to my man and then went into tears when he rejected her. (Mind you, he works in a kitchen and tells everyone about me and the fact that I’m pregnant and how excited he is to have a son.) Apparently she’s started to cause him problems at work and getting jealous when he talks other females, me included😂 Like this hoe really tried it😩😂🤪
this girl just implied if you give your baby a pacifier that means you’re a bad mom bc you’re “plugging them up & not finding out what’s wrong with them” mind you, this girl doesn’t even have any kids. Karter takes a pacifier when he goes to sleep & as soon as it falls out (which it always does) i take it away. other than that i KNOW what’s wrong w/ him. he only cries when he’s bored or hungry. so🤷🏻♀️ before you judge other mothers for their mothering how about you have some kids yourself first the...
i was an only child and the only thing i hated was being so sheltered but i definitely wasn't spoiled. i grew learning to appreciate what i have