i called my baby's daddy last night CRYING because i was in so much pain... he didn't seem to care, so i hung up and called the ambulance. i then text him and TOLD HIM i called the ambulance. he still didn't seem to care. i go to the hospital and find out that i was probably just having Braxton hicks contractions and was sent home an hour later... well not once while i was up there did he text or call me. he didn't know what was going on and he didn't care to know. im pregnant with his first born child and he just... doesn't care. smh, i could've been going into preterm labor! he wouldn't have fucking known cuz he failed to ask! so i told his bitch ass he doesn't get to be a father and to stop contacting me. now he wanna text me talking about "im trying to be civil". fuck all of that. you lost your chance of EVER being a father to my daughter.
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@jenngarcia1755, the dude has three fucking warrants. three. he can take me to court if he has the money but my grandmother has money out the ass and if i don't want him around my child, he will NOT and i mean NOT be around her. no visitations no nothing.
Ik how u feel I told mines I was in the hospital cause I was so dehydrated and couldn't breathe not once did he ask was I okay or did I want him up there the only text I got was he is to tired 2 be arguing
I know it hurts and it's hard to deal with. But make sure that you aren't making decisions in anger that you may regret later. When I was pregnant with my (now) 11 yr old son, I got cheated on when I was 8 months pregnant (the night of our baby shower no less... the girl is someone who was AT our baby shower that day) and I was so stressed out after that, I ended up in the hospital 4 times before I had him. My ex never once came to the hospital cause he was too busy with his new chick and his drinking buddies. And I felt the same way that you're feeling right now. I was so angry.
But the dad has rights. He can take you to court and get court ordered visitation and all of that and you won't have a say. Or... you can try to at least make some effort to get along with him for your child. If you don't go to court then you guys can try to negotiate and it gives YOU a little bit more say in the what and when of the situation instead of being forced to follow a court order.
Do what you feel is best for you and your child, but just keep in mind that if he goes to court chances are that he will get more than you want him to have.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
I need some advice my babies father gets really mad when he drinks liquor. He woke me up and started a big argument about the thermostat he completely destroyed the room and choked me this is the 2nd time he has done this. I'm going to church today and I'm not sure of what to do when he starts calling and texting to talk to me because he realized he messed up. I need some advice and solutions to help the problem.
It's so sad. I invited my daughter's father to the ultrasound today. He showed up. He didn't even want to sit next to me. He didn't acknowledge me in the waiting room. During the ultrasound he was on his phone. It ended, and he gave me a hug and told me he was going to go see Star Wars right after my appointment. All he asked was "how do you know if the baby is going to be cute or not?"
It's unbelievable. He doesn't care. It's ok if he doesn't care about me, but the baby. It hurts. So now I'm dr...
Am I wrong to be upset? Last night I was running a fever, weak, tired, sore, my left boob feels like it got used as a punching bag. I asked my husband to call out of work today to help me with the kid so I could get some rest. He went to work. I texted him this morning. Part of me thinks I mean. The other part of me thinks I was fine for saying that because he should've stayed home with us.
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My SO has been rude a lot ever since I've gotten pregnant...he said he doesn't care about my pregnancy, he doesn't even take one day off from work just ONE to come to at least one ultra sound appointment. I mean he's always making sure I'm fed, he lets use the heating pad, and even apologized to saying he doesn't care. He can mess with me all day but when I want to join and play around he gives me an attitude. He just makes me feel like s*** at times. He's a great fiancé don't get me wro...
and it doesn't hurt anymore. doesn't really even seem to surprise me... but i have given him soooo many chances in these last couple of months. im over half way done with my pregnancy and he still doesn't care. he's bought her a couple of things to wear (none in newborn sizes or even 0-3 months) and came to a couple appointments in the beginning but that's it. just wish he would do better for her. not for me but for her and he chooses not to so he just won't be around.