So I Had My First Baby Via C-Section ..
Well Emergency C-Section & Now Im Pregnant Again ..
Ok So , I Want To Try Vaginally ; But I'm Kinda Scared , I Do Not Want To Tear When Pushing ..
How Many Of You Ladies Tore ?
Start primrose oil orally at 34 weeks and 37 weeks poke a hole in it and put it in vaginally.
Whem you start taking it orally and vaginally double up and itll soften your cervix and help you from tearing and make sure to let your doctor or nurse know you dont want to push until instructed
I didn't rip, I had an amazing dr she told me when to stop pushing so she could turn his shoulders up and down and so that way I wouldn't rip and I didn't rip at all!
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
TWW!!
2dpo and on the tww journey. Anyone on the same dpo or close? Haven't decided if I will test at 12dpo or just wait and see if she shows up!!

I will be 41 :/
Short Luteal Phase?
I've just started temping because I believe that the reason I haven't had a BFP yet, after 20 months, is because I believe I may have a Luteal Phase Defect.
I tore with both of my girls and it was ok. With my first I didn't feel it at all, my dr tried to keep me from tearing too bad and it worked. I got 6 stitches. With my second one I did a completely natural labor, no pain medication, and I felt when I tore and it stung a bit, but you won't be thinking of that while you are trying. To push a head out. And the reward in the end makes it all worth it.