Ok sorry got TO MUCH INFO.but it seriously makes me jealous how many horny moms I see on my newsfeed talking about how long they HAVE TO WAIT to have sex after baby because THEY CANT HELP THEMSELVES?? What? R I kidding me!! I'm three months post partum and STILL DONT WANT IT THE WAY I DID BEFORE BABY WAS BORN.. I know it's the breast feeding that makes us dry and less horny but I REALLY DONT WANT IT AT ALL!:( with my first I didn't breast feed and wanted it 1 month after baby was born. But with baby number two I'm exclusively breast feeding and DONT WANT IT AND IM SUPER TIGHT DOWN THERE LIKE A FINGER HURTS ME!! 😭😭😭😭😭😭
Dang, I had sex just 4 days postpartum. I never had a dip in my drive
Pre-birth I wanted it daily even up to my last days of pregnancy. But ever since baby arrived I'm so turned off by sex. I have zero desire for it... maybe it's due to the lack of sleep and energy. 😂 but it's seriously the last thing on my mind these days.
Yeah that's how we are we haven't had sex yet and before giving birth we hadn't had sex since I turned 8 months pregnant
I was in the exact same boat. I waited 6-7 weeks because my stitches never came out and I had to wait to get them removed. I was a little antsy, but not till the last week or so. But with my daughter, who I breast fed, I didn't care. (Plus we had to wait for the last 2 months because I had issues) And I didn't even get any stitches after her birth. I bled for 9 weeks though. So that was a turn off. And then I co slept for 10 months so it was really hard. But honestly I didn't mind. My husband and I maybe sex maybe once a month. That's fine for both of us.
That's how I was after baby, n to top it off postpartum depression and anxiety made it worse for me, I was super dry, I found this pills at gnc it's called steel libido I promise they work!
@mdomke22, yeah. I'm gonna try to get sometime to think dirty and maybe one day when kids are sleeping at the same time lol I will def let my hubby get some of this.
Oh :/ well that's good to know. Now I know it's not the breast feeding.
Lol I'm breastfeeding and wanted it before my 6 weeks was up 😂😂😂
Because I have to be on mental health medication after birth I am unable to breastfeed😔 what are some good formulas for babies? I know breast is best but I can’t be on the medication I need and breast feed.
Short Luteal Phase?
I've just started temping because I believe that the reason I haven't had a BFP yet, after 20 months, is because I believe I may have a Luteal Phase Defect.
Not sure if I want to breast feed my baby when he’s born..bottle feed or both..
how long after your babys born do your breast go back to normal size if your not breast feeding?
Just kind of doing a toll for fun!!!
For your FIRST pregnancy, was the baby born before your due date OR after?
If the baby was born for medical purpose before please put that and if they were born after due date how long after?
I just want to see how many mommas had their baby on or before their due date since you hear usually the first baby is after it!
(No I dont want my baby to come early, just want to hear others moms first experience (: )
I think that's why @ginz, so am I lol