Ok sorry got TO MUCH INFO.but it seriously makes me jealous how many horny moms I see on my newsfeed talking about how long they HAVE TO WAIT to have sex after baby because THEY CANT HELP THEMSELVES?? What? R I kidding me!! I'm three months post partum and STILL DONT WANT IT THE WAY I DID BEFORE BABY WAS BORN.. I know it's the breast feeding that makes us dry and less horny but I REALLY DONT WANT IT AT ALL!:( with my first I didn't breast feed and wanted it 1 month after baby was born. But with baby number two I'm exclusively breast feeding and DONT WANT IT AND IM SUPER TIGHT DOWN THERE LIKE A FINGER HURTS ME!! 😭😭😭😭😭😭
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Dang, I had sex just 4 days postpartum. I never had a dip in my drive
@ginz, same!!! How old is your baby?
Pre-birth I wanted it daily even up to my last days of pregnancy. But ever since baby arrived I'm so turned off by sex. I have zero desire for it... maybe it's due to the lack of sleep and energy. 😂 but it's seriously the last thing on my mind these days.
Yeah that's how we are we haven't had sex yet and before giving birth we hadn't had sex since I turned 8 months pregnant
I was in the exact same boat. I waited 6-7 weeks because my stitches never came out and I had to wait to get them removed. I was a little antsy, but not till the last week or so. But with my daughter, who I breast fed, I didn't care. (Plus we had to wait for the last 2 months because I had issues) And I didn't even get any stitches after her birth. I bled for 9 weeks though. So that was a turn off. And then I co slept for 10 months so it was really hard. But honestly I didn't mind. My husband and I maybe sex maybe once a month. That's fine for both of us.
That's how I was after baby, n to top it off postpartum depression and anxiety made it worse for me, I was super dry, I found this pills at gnc it's called steel libido I promise they work!
@mdomke22, yeah. I'm gonna try to get sometime to think dirty and maybe one day when kids are sleeping at the same time lol I will def let my hubby get some of this.
You are probably just too busy to think about all that!
Oh :/ well that's good to know. Now I know it's not the breast feeding.
Lol I'm breastfeeding and wanted it before my 6 weeks was up 😂😂😂
I think that's why @ginz, so am I lol