So when I went to the bathroom like 5 minutes ago I was in a lot of pain and when I wiped I had clots on the t.p. And a lot of pain in my back what should I do?! I'm really concerned for the baby
@elizabethspears1998 yeah if a Dr tells him he will probably understand more
@twinmomma2b, yeah I get that he'll understand more after the appointment
@elizabethspears1998 I was moving from my old place and was lifting like 2-5 lb boxes and taking them down to the car and ended up in the hospital with bleeding behind my babies. Which absorbed by itself. I learned my lesson. Don't over do it. If you can't do something don't make yourself. You need to explain it to him. Maybe he can bring the baskets down and up for you if you just wash them and stuff. Just don't lift it if it's too much for you. Not saying that's what it was but I'd rather be safe than sorry
No they haven't I'm going to be talking about my limits with them.
@elizabethspears1998 did they give you a weight limit on what to lift I know my Dr had a problem with me lifting anything. And especially walking too much and straining my back.
@elizabethspears1998 that's not good for you. Have you been to the Dr yet?
@twinmomma2b, my boyfriend makes me do the laundry and the basket is a good 10 lbs and I have to go up and down the stairs with it. 😔
@elizabethspears1998 just stay calm and don't over think it. Could be nothing. Just go get checked out and make sure. I've had bleeding thro most of my pregnancy and I thought the same thing but turned out both babies were fine. Have you lifted anything?
Yeah me and him are probably going to the hospital out here it's a five minute drive. I just hope everything is ok.
Maybe call an ambulance... I think you and your baby is most important right now...
Well if your in pain and worried better safe then sorry can always call for an ambulance
@michelleaaliyah, thank you ❤️ my boyfriend just has his band over and I don't have a car :/ ugh
I would definitely go to the er.. probably the safest and smartest thing to do. Good luck I hope everything is ok..
Don't think ahead like that get yourself to the emergency room I know it sounds hard but keep calm you don't need to stress yourself out it maybe be something totally different
@michelleaaliyah, I'm just scared that I may be miss carrying. And my boyfriend asked if we should go so I reached out to you other moms for help. I'm scared 😭
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
TWW!!
2dpo and on the tww journey. Anyone on the same dpo or close? Haven't decided if I will test at 12dpo or just wait and see if she shows up!!

I will be 41 :/
AF due 29th, anyone else?
Hi all AF is due 29th Sept for me feels like forever away. Has anyone tested yet or when do you plan on testing x
@twinmomma2b, yeah