I honestly don't know how many more times I have to argue with Siah's dad about my child being…
I honestly don't know how many more times I have to argue with Siah's dad about my child being around his family. Last night he called me saying he's taking Siah's Birthday and the day of his party off work because he wants to do something with him. I have no issue with this at all but what I do have an issue with is that he wants Siah to spend the day at his parents house as well. This last week his parents house got infested with bed bugs and they decided to blame me for it (mind you I haven't set foot in his mom's house since September) . He's literally been calling my phone all week asking if my dad or my nana has bedbugs at their house and saying his family feels I'm responsible for their bedbugs and they're taking it out on him because I'm his babymomma.....I don't want my child around all that drama! I don't want my child around these people because they harbor ill feelings towards me and that is in no way healthy for my child growing up. He still defends his family and they continue to attack me but he wants my son in the midst of it and I'm not gonna allow that.....someone please tell me if I'm wrong or give me some advice on what to do here.
bria·
Мама дочки-младенца
He's gotta respect Your wishes regardless. No relationship with the mother = no relationship with the child
Beonka·
Мама сына-младенца
@beebaby, I've let my son go over there on Thursdays to let him be around them but lately every time I ask if he's getting him on Thursdays he has had some excuse. Then he came out with it that his family feels I brought bed bugs to their house....I'm not for anymore drama with these people and with him defending them.....
Beonka·
Мама сына-младенца
@beebaby, No.....they apparently blame me because when I was living there (MONTHS AGO) I killed a few spiders by our bed and apparently those were bed bugs.......it's always something with these people and he always sticks up for them and expects me to apologize to them....it's too much drama and I don't want my child in the middle of it
Beonka·
Мама сына-младенца
@beebaby, I've let him go over there plenty of times and it's like it's always some problem they have with me and it's a lot of drama! If he'd tell his family to chill out with all this mess I'd have no problem with letting my child visit but if it's gonna be a problem every time then we can meet up some place or something....
Kelsey·
Мама дочки (1 год)
I would not allow it either!
Shalahea·
It sounds like y'all need to come up with an written agreement or take it to court
Beonka·
Мама сына-младенца
@shalahea.sharvez, sounds like his parents need to get their heads outta their asses and take a chill pill lol
Shalahea·
That too!! But also he needs to understand that he is a parent to your child and his parents do not have final say so as to what goes on with your child. He has a voice to tell his parents to respect you.
Beonka·
Мама сына-младенца
@shalahea.sharvez, He'll never do that....he'd rather use his voice to tell me how wrong I am and how I need to respect his parents because they did so much for me (bullshit) I'm just trying to figure out how he's going to explain to our son why he's perfectly fine letting his parents disrespect me 😒
Shalahea·
He's gonna feel bad when he does because your child gonna ask why