I need help!!! Something is wrong with my dog and I have no money or job to take him to the vet. I think hes dying idk
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Not only has he not responded, now I have to sit here worrying if something happened 😣😒
So its been a long time since I've been on here. So much has happened. I don't know if I need to vent or what but I'm so sick of being called a rapes by my own husband because he has sex apnea and every once in a while it happens and i don't know what is happening until he has already inside me and almost about to cum. Every time I don't stop him and wake him up from the act I get called a rapist and told he will call the police and have me arrested for rape and throwing in jail. When it first started happening I had known clue that it happened. Hell he never brought it up until it happened. At first he didn't have a problem with it happened but the last two years it has changed hell our lives and marriage has changed after i cheating on him. I have been trying to find a way to make things better for us but nothing i do helps. I don't think we will ever get passed it.I have suggested we go to counseling anything to help but he says no. We are about to have our 6th child together. 4 before I cheated and 2 after. I know that us having 2 more kids is not the best thing we needed but it happened and I love everyone of my children. I have told him that we need to get a divorce and he says ok but i can't have any one of our children so I continue to stay praying everyday that things will be better and it doesn't. Im at my wit's end. Im halfway out the door and half in. Im not losing or leaving my children with him. Don't get me wrong hes a great dad. And he was a great husband. I just don't know what to do or say or anything anymore more maybe yall moms can help or give me some advice.
Mamas I really need some advice or just a listening ear, I really don't know what to do, or if I'm overreacting, but my baby's father and I are together, when we met and I got pregnant he was here working, he went back to work out of town after I found out I was pregnant and only comes back once a month, he supports me financially, which was mostly his choice bc he makes good money, we are doing fine on money.. but I'm almost 31 weeks and as I get closer I'm really worried about raising my daughter on my own, he plans to continue to come back only once a month even when she is born and it really scares me, even though I know we will need the money since I won't be working, I still feel like I'm going to be alone raising our daughter, when we talk about it all he has to say is he doesn't see any other way, but he's never lived here, let alone had a job here, and I know of so many places where he could get a job easily when he's here for one of his monthly visits and he just keeps saying that he can't quit his job and move here without having a stable job, and I keep telling him he can,find a job before he quits this one, but yet he's not even trying to find a job when he's here, he hasnt researched job openings or called anywhere, sometimes I feel like he's just comfortable with what is happening and it really hurts me to think about my daughter not having him here, and raising her alone, for one he's never been around a baby, doesnt have a clue how to raise one, and has never even HELD a baby, so I feel like if he only comes back once a month then he's never going to learn how to help with her, let alone know her, and her recognize him when he is here... every time we talk about it, it just turns into an argument and I'm to the point where I feel like I'm wasting my breathe... I just really don't know what to do, I'm scared, and need help and I feel like he doesn't wanna risk anything by moving here when I really need him. am I overreacting??? btw don't get me wrong, I'm beyond grateful for him, with everything he does, and all the financial support he provides, but I've never been "taken care of" (for lack of better words) and I would rather work too, just to have him here to help me and be with his daughter and sometimes I feel like that's not an option to him... it's really depressing me and scaring me. don't be afraid to tell me if I sound like a spoiled bitch or something, I honestly need yalls HONEST OPINION. 😞
bria·
Мама дочки-младенца
I did. I mean my bf helped a little more with changing and dressing her, but yes 7 plus months later and he's never taken a night to help me ever. Idk if u saw my post but last night was the first straight night of sleep I got (cuz baby slept) in over three months. I'm up before him everyday, waking up throughout the night etc. I don't get a break ever! He has his son 3 days a week and all that kid does is make a mess and not he held responsible for cleaning up after himself (he's 8). I spend hours cleaning while literally wearing my baby, or her sleeping, etc and my house just gets destroyed. Plus I cook everyday 😑😑😑
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@rguffey27, oh my gosh yes!!!! It's so Annoying my son is 7 almost 8 months old and nothing I have to tell him to hold him or make him change him and that's only once in a while and he will roll his eyes and try to come up with excuses to get out of it he says once he turns one he will help more excuse you dude you should help more before you feel like it and he wants another one now I don't think so I can't even get you to help with one kid and he doesn't clean up after himself or anything unless I freak out now so I literally have to do everything so fricken annoying!!!!
Rachel Wright·
Мама сына-младенца
@ace160, @bria I'm so sorry y'all are going through this too. It makes raising this little guy harder than it should. And because of it, our son hasn't bonded with him at all.
bria·
Мама дочки-младенца
I hope it gets better. My daughter and her dad didn't really bond til about 3 months and now she's like so obsessed with him it's sad when she's sitting there looking up at him and he won't pick her up 😑 I'm praying for you mama
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@bria, @rguffey27, yeah my son absolutely loves his daddy and he gets so excited to see him and he just says hi Kaysen and keeps walking past him unless I physical hand him to him he holds him for a minute than puts him down it sucks big time I'm sorry you guys are going threw it to I'm always here to talk if you need to
Korahleah Sanchez·
Мама троих детей
Sounds like he knows what he's doing. I'd tell him to step it up or I'd be gone.
bria·
Мама дочки-младенца
@ace160, same ladies we have to support each other but smh I hate men