Am I the only one who's husband gives zero f about the pregnancy and the baby? Because it's starting to hurt worse the…

Did he act like that way before you got pregnant

Not like this @mami1234

It's very possible he will change once the baby is here.. For us we become mothers the moment we become pregnant but guys sometimes see it as an inconvenience or something. My hubby tried to be messed up when I first got pregnant because "he wasn't ready for a baby" but the closer I got he got better.. Now he regrets ever feeling that way because he loves our daughter so much.. It may be because he scared but it never feels good to us. Maybe talk to him and ask him why he's being like that.

I've tried talking to him and now I just sit there and don't say anything. I cry when I'm alone. I have nightmares about him leaving me or cheating on me and I know for the most part it's the hormones, but still @mrscruz0530

I completely feel you. My husband abandoned his first child, so all the while I was pregnant I kept thinking he was going to leave. He cared none while I was pregnant. Then the baby came, he still cared none. 5 months in and he's finally becoming a good father. Sometimes it just takes men a while to come around. Men find babies a woman's duty and an inconvenience on their lives. Don't be sad, you'll have that bond with your baby, and when he finally sees what you have with your baby, he will want that too.

I just don't think I can make it that long @rguffey27

My ew was like that... the whole time I thought he would change once the baby was here. An that didn't happen either he left us. he texts me every few days for a picture of her but that's all. @nicoclev

@aliakr =( I'm sorry honey

Oh its okay me an her are better off without him... he won't even call her by her name because I named her without him he wasn't even there for the birth . he wouldn't even facetime me he was sleeping @nicoclev

@aliakr that's so shameful, honestly. It's not like he's not biologically a part of her. I'm glad y'all are better off

he tried to hide my pregnancy from everyone even his family. I wasn't allowed to show my belly off or anything. but every situation is different do what's best for you an your child. it took me my entire pregnancy to realize what was best.

@nicoclev I wish nkw that I would've known sooner an got to enjoy being pregnant. but it's okay

@aliakr I truly believe that everything happens for a reason and even though I'm so hurt it's opening my eyes to so much and I know it'll be okay soon

yep exactly ! everything happens for a reason. just hang In there an congratulations on your beautiful baby .. @nicoclev

@aliakr thank you so much =D your little one Is so cute!