Am I the only one who's husband gives zero f about the pregnancy and the baby? Because it's starting to hurt worse the closer I get to delivery
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yep exactly ! everything happens for a reason. just hang In there an congratulations on your beautiful baby .. @nicoclev
@aliakr I truly believe that everything happens for a reason and even though I'm so hurt it's opening my eyes to so much and I know it'll be okay soon
@nicoclev I wish nkw that I would've known sooner an got to enjoy being pregnant. but it's okay
he tried to hide my pregnancy from everyone even his family. I wasn't allowed to show my belly off or anything. but every situation is different do what's best for you an your child. it took me my entire pregnancy to realize what was best.
@aliakr that's so shameful, honestly. It's not like he's not biologically a part of her. I'm glad y'all are better off
Oh its okay me an her are better off without him... he won't even call her by her name because I named her without him he wasn't even there for the birth . he wouldn't even facetime me he was sleeping @nicoclev
My ew was like that... the whole time I thought he would change once the baby was here. An that didn't happen either he left us. he texts me every few days for a picture of her but that's all. @nicoclev
I just don't think I can make it that long @rguffey27
I completely feel you. My husband abandoned his first child, so all the while I was pregnant I kept thinking he was going to leave. He cared none while I was pregnant. Then the baby came, he still cared none. 5 months in and he's finally becoming a good father. Sometimes it just takes men a while to come around. Men find babies a woman's duty and an inconvenience on their lives. Don't be sad, you'll have that bond with your baby, and when he finally sees what you have with your baby, he will want that too.
I've tried talking to him and now I just sit there and don't say anything. I cry when I'm alone. I have nightmares about him leaving me or cheating on me and I know for the most part it's the hormones, but still @mrscruz0530
It's very possible he will change once the baby is here.. For us we become mothers the moment we become pregnant but guys sometimes see it as an inconvenience or something. My hubby tried to be messed up when I first got pregnant because "he wasn't ready for a baby" but the closer I got he got better.. Now he regrets ever feeling that way because he loves our daughter so much.. It may be because he scared but it never feels good to us. Maybe talk to him and ask him why he's being like that.
Did he act like that way before you got pregnant
I will be 41 :/
Short Luteal Phase?
I've just started temping because I believe that the reason I haven't had a BFP yet, after 20 months, is because I believe I may have a Luteal Phase Defect.
Things I never thought I'd say...
Until I became a mom:
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
@aliakr thank you so much =D your little one Is so cute!