Sad because most mummies have baby showers and I won't be having one 😔 it isn't a big deal as such, but when I envisioned having children it wasn't like this reality. It's hard to get excited over my baby when nobody else is bothered.
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@mother_of_humans, I get you, and I'm not bothered about gifts or anything. I guess it's more that nobody has shown any interest throughout the whole pregnancy so much that I've done everything pretty much alone, and having no one want to throw me one or attend one feeds into the idea that nobody cares x
@jessyab, can always inbox me aswell chick if u fancy a chat 👍🏻 x
@babybump0503, exactly, especially since everything changes over the years so our parents' experiences will be completely different to ours x
Yeah i feel you, I haven't had any friends since I was 13/14 because I left school early. And I've only really got my nan and mum to talk to about my pregnancy. They are being pretty great atm but still Its nice to have someone who's in the same 'current' boat as you. X
@haribo83, I don't have that kind of relationship with them :/ x
@shannonn95, same here! It really does suck, sorry you're going through something similar x
@babybump0503, thanks hun, maybe I'll take you up on that at some point because it'd be nice to have a proper chat with a soon to be mum. None of my friends are parents or pregnant so I don't think that helps with my situation x
I'm not having a shower either! I don't actually have any friends and very limited family (some of which can't be in the same room together) so I didnt see the point in bothering. Of course I know everyone's different though. And as for not having anyone, I know its not the same thing but my inbox is always open if you need a chat x
I'm the same! Was gutted seeing everyone else have one but all my friends are from different friend groups and all over the place and wouldn't bother making the effort, sucks 🖕🏻 xx
@jessyab, have U spoken to them and told them how you're feeling? X
@haribo83, I'm still living with my parents atm so physically, yeah. But I don't have anyone emotionally x
@jessyab, yeah you are 😒 surely your family are there for you? X
@haribo83, it's really hard to be excited when I've spent the last 8-9 months doing everything on my own, with hardly a congratulations. I'm supposed to have people to enjoy this moment with 😥
@jessyab, this pregnancy was unplanned too. I feel the same way sometimes. But my friends are excited. Forget about anyone else and try enjoy your pregnancy, it'll be all over soon and nothing will matter when you have your baby in your arms x
@haribo83, idk, maybe because it was unplanned :/ but the only person who's bothered is my sister who lives in Abu Dhabi, no one else really cares. Feel so lonely and deflated x
That sounds sad chick, why isn't anyone bothered? X
@west94, I care but I didn't want to be a mum yet so having support would've meant a lot, and probably would make me feel more ready for having a child. And thank you :) x