Any other moms have a hard time dealing with their husbands talking to their child's mother?
I had this issue but I'm not quiet about how I feel about things when it comes to her. I told my husband If he doesn't stand up for me and say something that I'll take it into my own hands...well let just say now she text me to make sure it's ok for my step son to come over or if we have any plans because she definitely heard my mouth and it wasn't nice...don't bite the hand that feeds your child when your not around
@brynleighsmomma, it is wrong and so petty like please go and actually take care of the two kids you already have before trying to bring in another one in the picture
That's just petty. Like why should she even care. Me and my husband are pretty sure his ex is pregnant. She acts like she care that I'm having a little girl but in all honesty she has done nothing but try to stress me out to make me lose the baby since day one @katiesmiles1 and I am so sorry you had to find out like that @ncmomma that's so wrong of him. At least you got a beautiful baby out of it.
@brynleighsmomma, I completely agree. They just have to be put in there place. Especially because she's having another baby also and apparently wants to be all nosy and I won't let her. She was all trying to find out the gender because we didn't want to say. Like no it's non of your business stay the fuck out. And the day they and a reveal gender whatever she had her son call us to tell us they where having a girl I was like ok I like I give a fuck
They think they have control. And honestly I think it's gonna come down to me putting her in her place we gotta do what we gotta do for our kids. Even our stepchildren. I've about had enough of her and I'm about to tell her how it is. @katiesmiles1 you might have to do the same thing. As bad as you want to avoid conflict.
@brynleighsmomma, we don't ether it's just when she calls to speak to her son we always put it on speaker to see what she's telling him since he mumbles he doesn't even talk and then it's like she interrogates him and then is like "well you grandpa is taking your little brother to bla bla bla tomorrow" like wtff obviously he's going to want to go and it's funny how it's always a time when we have stuff to do 😡 I told him last time she ruins any of my plans that I was looking forward if she wants her son at a certain time to do a certain activity she can fucking pick him up
We quit telling his ex when we had plans for that very reason. It's non of her business what we take Ismayla to do as long as she is safe and happy. @katiesmiles1
@brynleighsmomma, yeah that's just not right. Mine is always saying I have any issue with picking up his son and no that's not the issue the issue is she always makes it difficult when we have plans that we don't get to go to our plans because we have to drop him off some where and he doesn't say anything which gets me so mad. Like if it's that important they can pick him up
It's like we are supposed to just not think anything of it when they talk to someone they used to screw. Like no. And it's even worse when every time I go with him to get his daughter his baby momma has everything hanging out. Like could you please just not. And she made the comment the other day that I resent Ismayla (my stepdaughter) because she gave birth to her. Like no I will never treat a child any differently than I would my own just cause their momma is a hoe. He never stand up to her for me anymore. And wonders why I get so mad about it all. @katiesmiles1
@brynleighsmomma, that's shittyyy , ugh why can't they ever realize no matter what there's always going to be issues with the other baby mama
Yup. Today he went to get his daughter. I stayed home due to not feeling good. We'll I was on the phone with him. He was passing the store down the street from her house so he says and was like we'll I'm gonna get off the phone because I am almost there. It's like he doesn't want me to know what he says to her when I'm not around. @katiesmiles1
@brynleighsmomma, I completely understand it really gets under my skin especially because he just like summarizes the whole thing
It kills me that when he talks to her he won't tell me what is said. He says it's because he doesn't want to stress me out or me get upset over what she says. But it just makes me feel like he doesn't care how I feel or what I think when it comes to her. Really starting to feel like he misses being with her. As much as he says he doesn't his actions speak louder than words right now. @katiesmiles1
@morenita1989, this!!!!!! 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻