OK ladies I have a relationship problem . me n my bf have been together for 7months . we have had…
OK ladies I have a relationship problem . me n my bf have been together for 7months . we have had our bumpy roads n even the most amazing things are happening but lately . I feel like he has been so distant from me . he listens to what I have to say but his response every time is "whatever dude" he has a drinking problem that I'm trying to help him slow down but yet when ever he has money he's at the store buying beer again . when he's drunk he calls me names as in bitch , slut ,hoe, etc . he trips cause idk why but I try n tell him no other girl is gonna stick with your ass through the physical abuse n mental abuse . he's done/said some things that I'm scared he might do again . I love him, my son loves him . he is daddy no matter what . but when I ask him to slow down n stop drinking cause the reasons I listed hes like I won't act like that this time babe n yet it happens all over again . I'm scared of the fact he's a not giving a fucc "type person" n that when it really comes down to me leaving again. (yes again) he won't give a care. he's been done dirty by his past girls . even I have been done dirty but when I love I love hard n it takes a lot to hurt me but being that I *MIGHT be Pregnant n him not realizing that I'm getting fed up . he might lose me n his kids . n I don't want that . what do I do should I stay or should I go ? I've tried plenty of times to have him quit but everything I say is in one ear out the other . WHAT DO I DO ?
😢😢 I'm Tired Of It . But I love Him . 💔💔😯😯😯
💕RayyeRayye💕·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
You might have to leave him so he can realize what he has. I had to leave my babydaddy for almost a year for him to realize what he had.
Anisa Nava·
Мама двоих (младенец)
I left for a good week he begged for me back n I came back . really thought he was gonna change n boom still the same.
Anisa Nava·
Мама двоих (младенец)
he's a good daddy to my son n I just don't want to separate them cause not only will it make me hurt it will also hurt my son cause daddy won't be around . I'm just really trying my hardest to bite my tongue when he drinks but I have a big ass mouth n will say whatever in front of anyone . idk .
Brittany V·
Мама сына (7 лет)
Try getting him help I know guys are stubborn but tell how it affects you and the kids. Sometimes the hardest thing to do is walk away. I know how hard it is when you love a person and want to have a happy family but in the end why do you deserve to get all that abuse.
Anisa Nava·
Мама двоих (младенец)
he don't care he says he's sorry he can say it a million time n I can't trust or believe him anymore .
Brittany V·
Мама сына (7 лет)
I know how you feel. It's so hard because your stuck between making your kids happy or you being abused and unhappy. And like any good mother they do what they have to so they can see the smiles on their kids but secretly there dying inside. It's so hard to walk away especially when you have no support.
Anisa Nava·
Мама двоих (младенец)
yes everything you say is so right . my son loves him n I don't want him n daddy to be apart but if he doesn't realize what he's doing wrong my son isn't gonna have a father anymore. it sucks . n I can't help but cry n pray n wish things would be OK . I'm hurting like hell .
Brittany V·
Мама сына (7 лет)
With my 1st child it took me 6 years to finally get away. He never beat me or anything he wasn't abusive but he did know how to play mind tricks. Long story short i wasted 6 years being unhappy just so my son could be happy and then what I snapped and just couldn't take it i felt the life sucked out of me. I finally got the balls And left. It was hard I had no support no friends but I pushed my self and by the time I knew it i felt amazing I found myself i was happy and my son was still happy.
Anisa Nava·
Мама двоих (младенец)
being alone with no one to help is what's the hardest
Brittany V·
Мама сына (7 лет)
It was so hard but I just set my mind on other shit i worked a lot to keep my mind off shit and was a lot more happier with my son and we had everything we needed And more
Anisa Nava·
Мама двоих (младенец)
I need to get my shit together n just be happy for my kids . all this stress its not good for the baby . n my son being so small he knows when mama is hurting or stressing cause he gets that way also. I hate it.
Brittany V·
Мама сына (7 лет)
Yea it's hard but you do deserve to be happy too. And I know my son is 7 and hes so excited about having a brother. My new husband is to he's a good guy this pregnancy just has me so emotional and stressed and paranoid and jealous..m
Brittany V·
Мама сына (7 лет)
Well I'm here if you want to talk.
Anisa Nava·
Мама двоих (младенец)
I know I'm pregnant . I been all emotional I have horrible mood swings . he understands but he don't care . my son feels what I feel. I just don't want my new baby to not have a daddy either my sons real dad isn't in the picture n if we lose this man my son isn't gonna have a daddy no more that's what hurts me the most
Brittany V·
Мама сына (7 лет)
Yea I know how it feels. It sucks. I tell my husband all the time that I'm so emotional and crazy...sometimes it's even hard to feel or be happy for the new baby
Ary Brewer·
В ожидании первенца
It's really hard being in love with an addict or alcoholic. No one will get clean or sober until they are ready to. It's ultimately up to you what you want your life to look like. You can stay & hope that things will change, hope that he will stop drinking, hope that he will stop mentally and emotionally abusing you. And maybe that all might happen. But maybe it all might not. It just comes down to what you're willing to put up with, what you're willing to put yourself through.. It is a tough choice either way it goes. I've been there. I stuck around for 3 years, and in the end, he ended up leaving me for the drugs. I hope that things work out for you, truly, whichever path you choose to take ❤