How to survive your spouse family and they don't like from the time you came into his life and now we have a baby and some of them want to be nice and all friendly now that we have a baby but they still don't like me but want to hold the baby and I'm 2000 miles away from my family...
I am in the same boat. My bf family called my daughter "a product of adultery because in gods eyes (his ex wife) will always be his true wife". I'm not even kidding. When his father passed away, they made a point to let my bf know I wasn't invited to the dinner after the service. I live in Ct and my moms in Florida. So I totally understand how that feels. I feel like they think I have no one. I honestly stay as far away from them as I can and my daughter is forbidden to go anywhere near them without me. It's hard but a lot of it has to do with your SO standing up to them (which is a battle in itself because they're his family he loves them he doesn't see it like that). That's my scenario to a T. Don't take shit from anyone. If they have no relationship with the mother, they don't deserve a relationship w the child !!!
And his family wants me to work and expect me to leave my baby with a bunch of people I do t trust for a whole day