how is it that my sons dad expects me , pregnant asf to walk 30 MiNUTES to meet up HiS BABY MAMA at the spot they do when it's time to take his son home ? WTF !! THAT BiTCH HAS A FUCKING CAR SHE CAN COME TO ME ! HE GOTS ME SO FUCKED UP RiGHT NOW ! AT THAT HE JUST SAYS iT LiKE iT'S MANDATORY ! HAHAHAHA BYE !
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
This is my son Walter. Today is his birthday. He would have been five. This picture was taken when he was 16 days old. He was my first child and my only son (I now have 3 girls). He passed away the next day after this picture from congenital heart failure. It was a miracle that he lived passed 12 weeks gestation because of how severe his heart defects were. I miss him so much, I can't believe it's been 5 years. It still hurts so bad. I don't talk about him a lot out loud because I end up bawling, so i thank you for letting me share this with you ladies. You have always been nice and supportive. Happy birthday son, your mom loves you.
Question. I just left my husband for cheating and now hes been harassing me. Hes threatening to come get our son. I dont care if he sees his son but I'm not comfortable with him leaving with him bc hes never taken care of him a day In his life and he might use him against me. Am I wrong for feeling this way??
Lastnight I was talking to my father in laws girl friend about the situation with my husband. She told his dad about it and he texted rick😒. Well I asked him what he said to his dad and he said "nothing, I didn't want to make you look like a fool for telling me to leave"! Little does he know that his dad agreed with me that I was right to tell him to leave! He said that he appreciates me taking such good care if his son and grandbabies and I'm like a daughter to him and if I ever need him to wAtch the twins to get a nap or shower that he'd always be available to come help. That meant alot to me. But see Rick thinks his dad sided with him. That I was in the wrong. Um no lol his dad ALWAYS sides with me because he doesn't like the way his son is getting. Lazy. And not wanting to help me. He raised rick and his twin brother by himself and knows how hard it is. He gave up everything for his sons and now he's seeing how rick is being and is really upset about it. He said I should NEVER have to beg or even ask his son for help. He should see when I get overwhelmed and just do things for me so it's easier on me.... I really do appreciate his dad and him always trying to give me encouraging words I just wish his son could here those words too..
My baby daddy called me 10 times at five in the morning to tell me how he has two girlfriends and one is pregnant with his daughter and they are gonna be a family and he is treated right by her and he fucks her right and everything. Also that me and my son are trash
c. g·
The nerve of him even mentioning that . She can come get her kid your right.
R.H.·
Мама дочки (7 лет), беременна (40 нед.)
no!! if its mandatory then he needs to do it. that's not ur responsibility and its quite disrespectful to expect all that especially while pregnant. I'm a stepmom too. u have to put ur foot down or it gets worse
Aileen·
@mami1234 EXACTLY! NOT MY RESPONSiBiLiTY
Aileen·
@newlywedmama21 they went to court to custody he won & got his days & I get stuck watching him all day everyday! im with him more Than his dad ! He wanted more days HE got them & I get stuck dealing with it like wtf !
Aileen·
I watch him Wednesday- Saturday! I'm not gonna do this once my baby gets here I need my rest
R.H.·
Мама дочки (7 лет), беременна (40 нед.)
yeah that's my situation because he works and I'm on leave right now. but tHe mother doesn't get them or visit any more so I don't have to deal with that. but u have to put ur.foot down. he needs.to realize that if u werent there he couldn't have his kid so he needs to figure things out not you...
Aileen·
@newlywedmama21 yess & I am not trying to be a bitch or anything but it's not my responsibility! it would be different if maybe he asked or something or even showed me he appreciates me but he doesn't ! He's getting comfortable & that's what I don't want
R.H.·
Мама дочки (7 лет), беременна (40 нед.)
yep. u have to talk to him or make a decision for yourself.
Aileen·
@newlywedmama21 just like last night his kid came in crying cause he wanted to sleep in bed with us when his bed is LiTERALLY next to OURS ! he's 5 we live in a one bedroom so we are all in the same room .. I think it's a little too much he never used to do this
R.H.·
Мама дочки (7 лет), беременна (40 нед.)
yeah stepmomming is hard
...I'm 5 years in with 2 stepchildren and my own bio child plus one on the way. it onlg gets better if u set reasonable boundaries
Kailynn·
When you get with someone who already has a child, you're taking on that child too so he is kinda your responsibility.
I get not wanting to walk around at 38 weeks pregnant but says he's not your responsibility is harsh.