I just want to be alone with my baby for a few hours after having her, but don't wanna hurt any feelings. :/

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Cassandra·Мама двоих (1 год, 8 лет), ждёт третьего

That's how I feel. I also don't want anybody coming to see her until her big brother/sister meet her first

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- Caleen 🇯🇲·Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (40 нед.)

Exactly and as soon as the baby come out people be already ready to come to the hospital like wait a minute damn lol but seriously @jolynnsmith

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Jolynn Smith·В ожидании первенца

@proudmommy_0320, exactly! That's how I feel it should be. Just baby and mama for a lil while

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- Caleen 🇯🇲·Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (40 нед.)

Where is the share button 👏👏👏 @jolynnsmith like that is exactly how I feel like I don't want nobody in me nor my baby face. Like its our first time bonding outside the womb I want to enjoy it.

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Monica·Мама сына-младенца

It is completely reasonable! It's even good for both you and the baby to have that time alone. Most people will understand, and if they don't, oh well, they'll get over it.

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Jolynn Smith·В ожидании первенца

@nomaci, great advice...I don't mind visitors after a few hours. I just want to keep her to myself a few hours longer before sharing her with the world. May sound selfish, but I think that's reasonable...

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Monica·Мама сына-младенца

If people show up unannounced at the hospital use the nurses as a barrier. They can say you aren't seeing anyone, tough. And when you get home, disconnect the doorbell and shut the blinds if people show up randomly. Send out an 'all is well' text and put phones on silent. You deserve whatever time you want. Just let people know you're all okay first or they'll panic.

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Jolynn Smith·В ожидании первенца

@kitcatmeow8383, Thank you! I appreciate the comments. Makes me feel a little more comfortable with telling everyone I need some alone time with baby. Our "babymoon" lol

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Michelle·Мама сына (1 год), беременна (33 нед.)

@jolynnsmith 😉 no prob momma

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Jolynn Smith·В ожидании первенца

@b3autifulm3ss, I'm happy with that response. :) thank you.

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Michelle·Мама сына (1 год), беременна (33 нед.)

@jolynnsmith fuck everyone else... sorry but not sorry... do what you want momma

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