Ladies I need advise. As you all know I'm 33 weeks pregnant. My husband and I been going back and forth with the same dilemma. I work full time , I'm a full time student and I have a 4 years old son plus a baby on the way.
The dilemma is my husband never home. Every night he go out with his friends while I'm stuck home after work with my son and of course I have plenty of homework to do since I'm taking 4 classes this semester. I feel some type of way because he doesn't work and the time I'm home he go out late at night and don't come home till 3AM. What I'm I suppose to do? Apparently he don't care how I feel about it because it's becoming a routine now.
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It's not a healthy environment and there is no compromise between you and him. Two kids is no joke and it becomes a difficult task for one person to handle. Not saying it can't be done alone. But if this is how it's going to be once the baby is here. Then what's the point of him being there and if he isn't really going to be there. So those late nights that you have to endure bc you have feed, change and take care of a newborn. While he is out living the single life like that life has been passed. Your a man with a wife and about to be two children. Going out with friends like I'm lucky to have dinner with friends once in a 6 month period. This isn't acceptable to you and men always like to blame the hormones like hello.. it's more complicated than that.
I would of left him ..
just cuz I have my limits other wise they would just do what they want without caring ...
No girl it's not just hormones. he needs to make time for y'all. Nothing wrong with going out with friends sometimes but not all the time
@haleyjordan825, I told him that already and he make me feel like I'm just emotional because I'm pregnant right now.
he needs to make time for his fAmily !!! don't put up with it!
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